There is a man who belongs to a networking group that I am a member of. Because of our professions, we find ourselves sometimes at odds competing for some of the same clients. We don't even speak to each other. Why did I have a dream that we had mind blowing sex last night? And I am still feeling it today, if you know what I mean.
2006-11-02 04:26:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe thinking too much on how much better things would be if yall got along.
2006-11-02 04:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Now we all know why the dream, you are looking for confirmation of what we all know.
The question now is do you want to act on this knowledge or are we gonna continue to ignore the facts that are present.
The ball is in your court, you can either act or not act, that is a decision that you have to make.
You know some people ask for a sign, then ignore the sign. You will never know until you actually sit and chat. You are not required to take the relationship any further, but you owe it to yourself to check it out and see if there is anything there.
If a man came to you and explained to you that he had such a dream about you. You would dismiss it as yeah sure, now what else do you want.
I am glad to see that women have the same dreams, maybe they will stop denying them.
I hope this has been of some use to you, good luck.
"FIGHT ON"
2006-11-02 04:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Skip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple you have been thinking about him, in various ways (not necessarily in a sexual or even in a good way). However, because you had him on mind before sleep, it increased the likelihood of dreaming about him.
Everything we dream about has a meaning. You dreamed you and him were having 'great' sex. The sex part means you and him could get involved, as friends, colleagues, workmates, etc. The fact that you were having 'great' sex means the relationship would be a worthwhile one, you could end up as best friends.
2006-11-02 04:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mirage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't worry you still hate him!!!!!! Dreams are usually related to experiences we have during the day. They don't mean anything. Because this man you are in competition with is predominant in your life you dreamed about him. And this time it was an erotic dream. Next time you might dream about killing him.
I watched Jurassic Park the other night. I give you three guesses what I dreamed about and the first two don't count. (Yes dinosaurs)
2006-11-02 04:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by tjinjapan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times dreams cannot be observed in a literal sense you have to dig down deeper. Having a dream about having sex with him was probably your minds way of taking control and powe rover the situation
2006-11-02 04:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is a representation of just how the thrill of competition makes you feel. Do you enjoy the pressure or feel a sort of 'rush' from winning clients that this other man might have otherwise had? It could just be that he personifies that aspect of your personality. Just a guess, anyway!
2006-11-02 04:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Black Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean that you are secretly attracted to him. The dream sex could have been about resolving the competion or just a freak occurence. I wouldn't worry about it. Dreams are crazy things.
2006-11-02 04:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because like it or not, competing against him must make him at least subconsciously sexy to you. He must be at least fairly good-looking too (no?). You're obviously a type A personality, so perhaps you have a need for such a conquest. (And who knows, maybe you have a lot more in common than superficiality can explain.)
2006-11-02 04:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Frog Head Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you feel you are competing against him both professionally and sexually... that is to say you have gender issues in the work place... no doubt, in your dream, you were on top... in a superior or controlling position... the arousal part is your mind tapping into some of your more primal insticts... it's also possible that subconsiously, you really wanna bone this guy too
2006-11-02 04:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In western societies, women often use sex as a means of controlling men, or other women. Perhaps your dream was about controlling this person. Most likely, it was just a dream.
2006-11-02 04:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freud would say that sometimes competition is a form of repressed sexual attraction. And there are others who would make the point that if he competes with you and does it well, then he is demonstrating his suitability as a mate.
But more likely it's just a dream. Enjoy it! ( :
2006-11-02 04:29:31 · answer #11 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋