say if you and your friends including your guy friend go to the mall and hang out and he tries to get close to you say smooth talk you and ask if you wanna go somewhere else and you say yes and he takes you to a hotel and get a room and you think you guys are going tot alk but he has something else in mind and he starts caressing your leg and touch your body and you dont like it but you dont want to hurt his feeligns and he pushes himself on you by trying to kiss you. and trying to take your clothes off.
2006-11-02 04:25:06 · 8 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well its called rape but why would you think he wanted to go to a hotel to talk. I mean last I checked not a lot of people go get hotel rooms to have casual convo.
Starbucks yeah, Days Inn No
2006-11-02 04:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be naive. You shouldn't be going to a hotel room with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Knock it off. Grow a back bone ...You don't want to hurt his feelings? Are you that much of a door mat. Tell him to get his damn paws off of you and kick him in the balls or between the eyes. Call hotel security at once.
If he wants to talk then talk at the damn mall.
If he trys to kiss you and take your clothes off get the hell out of Dodge and never entertain the same air space as him. This guy is a potential rapist and doesn't respect women.
2006-11-02 04:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he disagrees with where you have set the boundaries..
What did you expect when you went to a hotel room with a guy ?
You expected to talk ??
Don't be so naive & gullible next time..
You go to a hotel room with a guy, it is for sex....
2006-11-02 04:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no girl. Just tell him you aren't interested in him that way. It doesn't matter WHY you went to the hotel room, even if your intention was to have sex. If you change your mind and say no and he still keeps going...that is called RAPE and he'll go to jail over it.
2006-11-02 04:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me but what boundaries did you set hotel room to talk that's why you go to Starbucks hotels motels secluded spots not for talking you led him just where he followed
2006-11-02 04:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by poconewyorkwanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all when a guy takes you to a hotel he doesnt plan on talking and if you dont tell him what your boundaries are how can he respect them... if you told him no on the other hand then its called rape and he should be reported.
2006-11-02 04:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't respect you and apparently you don't think much of yourself because if he did anything to you that you didn't like then you should say something and not be on yahoo asking this crazy question.
2006-11-02 04:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ones feelings are going to get hurt no matter whether its u or him.so just tell him how u really feel and then if u are still friends then u know wat hes realy like but if he blows up at u then he wasnt a really good friend.ur friends suppose to be there for not tryin be inside of u if u know wat i mean.so just tell him and get it over with.
2006-11-02 04:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋