I just don't get it. Don't people have any morals anymore?
2006-11-02 04:17:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have wondered this myself. I think all the morals in society have gone down the drain. I would never do that to anyone, if I decided I wanted someone else, other than my husband/bf, I would leave them rather than cheat. But if I make the marriage commitment, then that is for life. The moral situation explains the divorce rate also. I guess some people are brought up better than others.
2006-11-02 04:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity, insecurity and perhaps some sort of sexual problem.
People have never had any morals through the ages. If you do not like the running around then get out of the situation now. Not all people cheat. There is probably someone nice waiting for you to find them.
Be sure up front you establish a no cheating policy with the next significant other.
2006-11-02 12:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy I used to talk to said it this way, "You got a favorite ice cream right, like strawberry. you buy strawberry ice cream most of the time and it is your favorite. Sometimes you feel like chocolate or vanilla but you always go back to that strawberry ice cream you know and love." I'm not sure if I think this same way but it was a nice analogy. The only people I believe shouldn't cheat due to morals are married coupled. That is when you make a committment and a promise to eachother. Other wise, who cares if ya boyfriend or girlfriend cheats, you can always get another one, you have the rest of your life. I know cheating hurts though. Just a thought :)
2006-11-02 12:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by mizzladyariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupidity. Too many people now believe in the "me" what i want, what i can get, why are you not giving me what i want. A good relationship becomes like a comfortable pair of shoes, I am not get excitied. I am not the center of your university I have the right to cheat. After they do cheat and get caught, they then try to blame it on their significant other and when that does not work, they find out that what they lost is much more value than a few minutes roll in the hay. .
2006-11-02 12:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a character issue. People with integrity don't cheat.
People get into relationships with the wrong people, however, all of the time. 50% of all marriages end in divorce, and half the marriages that don't end in divorce aren't what I'd call happy & healthy relationships because the partners didn't figure out what it takes to make a relationship a good one before they got married.
2006-11-02 12:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morals have nothing to do with it. It is being human and having flaws. When you are not getting something you want, whether it be physical or emotional, and you find it in someone else, it is hard to control how you feel. If you are put in a situation where that feeling can be acted on, it is hard to say no.
2006-11-02 12:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by deliannathaniel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pretty much. also, as you can see on the responses from many people on here for example, we live in a society now where people are taught its just ok to get up and move on. rarely do people want to try and make things better in this day. its so sad. it will catch up with people eventually and our world will chage into a much less caring place. we have to try and make things work before we get t o a place where we cheat. i would NEVER cheat, i think its the ultimate disrespect. it should NEVER get to that point. the communication should always be clear. if you truly dont want to be with the person then they deserve for you to tell them and thats it. people are so scuzzy though, its so sad. i feel so bad for the people that have to put up with it.
2006-11-02 12:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that some people have no conscience. They are completely selfish and feel that all of their needs should be met by thier significant other. They also are never satisfied and think that the grass is greener somewhere else. They are worried that they might be missing something and that they are entitled to do whatever they need to to be "happy".
2006-11-02 12:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I suppose that in a long term relationship things aren't as exciting as they were when you were first dating. So cheating on someone is something new and there is the thrill of it. I'm not promoting it at all... that's just what I think it is. There are other ways of boosting a relationship... but cheating is the easy way out.
2006-11-02 12:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by missmieke87 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would think the same thing, I think some people are just greedy and selfish and don't consider their significant others feelings. And some people are just dogs and don't appreciate the fact that they have someone that is good to them.
2006-11-02 12:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋