Ok, this is the situation:
A mother of 4 ( two are around the ages of 6-11 and the other two are around the ages of 22-25). This woman is around the ages of 45-50. She does not work nor does she have much friends. Her husband works until 7pm-8pm. This house-wife does not take her kids to school, her husband does.Every day around 11am she gets ready and goes out, where?-nobody knows.She arrives around 3pm. Every-single-day she HAS to go out.This woman already has a background on cheating and flirting with other men.
She dresses like she is 20 years old. And she likes to go to malls ( even though she does not have money to spend).
what do you think?
btw, its not me
its my mother-in-law
oh, i forgot ... she cooks once ot twice a week. she doesnt clean her house, she doesnt wash the dishes ( her 22-25 year old sons do)
2006-11-02 04:15:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It doesn't sound like she wants responsibility. I think that she should be confronted on it. She needs to be a mother to those kids and it sounds like she's already washed her hands. I feel bad for the kids. Maybe the father/husband will see whats going on and do something about it.
2006-11-02 04:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Moon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the lady that lives up the street from me - her kids are 12 & 9, she refuses to work or clean or do anything in the house. She tans several times a week, goes for manicures & pedicures weekly, has numerous tattoos & everything on her - & I mean Everything - is pierced. Her husband does all the cooking & cleaning, takes the kids to scouts, ball, school & works a full time job. AND YES - she spends all of her free time with her "boyfriend". Everybody where we live knows what & who she's doing, even her husband knows it, but he won't ever divorce her because he never wants to do that to his kids. My opinion is that your MIL is doing another man or other men. What else would she be doing every day? If you really want to know, why don't you follow her or have her followed? That would satisfy your curiosity, but what would you do with the knowledge? She sounds like a lazy s l u t to me. Just like the ho up the street.
2006-11-02 12:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's much of your business of what she is doing or not..... I use to have a lot of problems with the way my mother in law did things and such ...... in the end i found that if i stay away from the whole thing i would no longer be involved in it and it no longer was my problem to deal with... I live my life the way I want to in my house and she in her's.
2006-11-02 12:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by dizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a stay at home mom of 3 boys, ages 6, 4, and 2 I would like to share just a few of my thoughts...
when you stay at home with kids, it is one of the most demanding jobs there is. I would get up with my husband everymorning at 4, fix his breakfast and lunch and see him off to work. Then I have to get up at 6:30, to fix breakfast again and get my oldest to school, I then have to get myself and my two other sons ready for the day. Laundry for 5, dishes already, its only 8:30, Beds to make,floors to sweep,mop and vacuum. Bu groceries, pay bills, feed the dog, clean out the mini van, you would be surprised what you will find. all this while making sure the kids do not hurt themselves or each other, and somewhere in there find time to fix lunch for the kids. Then its off to pick up my oldest from school. Home we go, time to straighten the house back up( because the kids have it destroyed again), and start supper. then there is dishes,baths and bedtimes, your husband wants his back rubbed because he has been working all day. Wait on him hand and foot, drinks, start his bath water, get his clothes, and then maybe just maybe I can find time to go jogging, go home, hope the kids stay asleep so you can take a bath and relax, but then someone is sick, or needs some water.Its never ending. then we do it again day after day, the same thing, After a while of being taken for granted you just get fed up. I know I am. I do not get "off" of work, my husband has never gotten up with the kids at night, not even after i came home from the hospital from having my kids, nights on end with my middle one crying all the time. he never helped. This woman is probably just needing some time alone, some time to get out of the house which up until now has seemed like a prison. If she is cheating, or you suspect it of her, ask her. Don't go around making assumptions. I have poured heart and soul into my home, my children and my husband. Whats wrong with a little break, everyone else gets one.
2006-11-02 12:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe she has a job--hooking. But seriously why do you care??? You should close up this can of worms before it gets out of hand unless the kids are being abused or completely left to thier own vices..... Let the husband catch her doing bad things.
2006-11-02 12:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Y' know what they say about people who live in glass houses.... be careful, you don't know what she is up to - short of following her around. She may be donating her time or is the town pump.
2006-11-02 12:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Little♥ Latin♥ Lupe♥ Lu♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she is getting what she can out of life with out really having to contribute to it
she sounds like a loser but things are working for her so she must be winning
2006-11-02 12:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by DeeVee D. Essemar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your Dad dont care then dont worry
2006-11-02 12:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Beth B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a silly, selfish, self-centered person.
Hey, it's my mom!!
2006-11-02 12:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't want to grow up to get closer to her kids or she's fed up
2006-11-02 12:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋