for me to stop crying?
I thought he loved me but he was just using me all along.
How much time is it going to take for these tears to stop running?
2006-11-02 03:53:47 · 22 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can start by not blaming yourself for anything..acknowlwdge the fact that he was and is an a**h**le...its his lost
tell yourself that you will be ok and love yourself no matter what that jerk did to you..always have high selfesteem..hold your head high..in time you will have put this in the back of your mind
2006-11-02 03:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Til you can't cry for him anymore!! You can do better than him and men...are a dime a dozen!!(sorry to the nice guys out there!) You're going through this..so the next time you get involved with a guy..you'll KNOW what you want and what to expect from him...Hopefully you'll meet a guy that has been dumped and used almost as badly as you have...
GUYS! I'm NOT being mean here..just stating what I've been through!!
My CURRENT husband...was going through his own hell while I had already been through mine with a divorce etc...when we met..we both wanted that SOMEONE TO LOVE and respect AND be loved and respected back!!! We met through Yahoo personals and have been together for over 5 yrs AND have been married for 4 yrs next month..and have 2 sons together...
Time heals all wounds..just remember this feeling and what you went through to get here..and you'll be a stronger person for it...
2006-11-02 12:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will stop crying soon but you will still think about him. Forgetting him will take a bit of time but the crying will stop soon. What will help you forget him faster is by thinking of the the bad things he did to you that you did not like. And all the things that he did that bothered you.
2006-11-02 11:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there, it depends on you and how much longer you choose to cry for. Try not to think about him, do things to take your mind off of it. If you are going to choose to think about it, you will cry more.
I know its easier said than done, but it really does depend on you and how you choose to handle it. Get together with one of your good friends, and just have a good gossip about life. Try not to stay alone, as that's when it hurts most.
You'll eventually get over it.
Hope you'll be alright!
2006-11-02 12:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by trixyt1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss him for as long as it takes honey... You are Beautiful! Wonderful! Fantastic! Someday, he will miss you... Too bad you'll be with Orlando Bloom, or some other hottie by then!!!! smile... :) you deserve to be happy! And just a note to help you fight those tears (don't feel sorry for yourself for too long) they will stop soon enough!
2006-11-02 12:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will stop sooner than you think. What goes around comes around and he will regret using you. It is important for you to deal with the feelings that you are having but don't wallow in self pity. We have all been the victim of a jerk. Trust me, you will get over it.
2006-11-02 11:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts now but don't let this person take up time in your head he isn't worth it. Don't let him win by doing this you are worth so much more than that. Go out with friend and have some fun or at least try =)
2006-11-02 12:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to sit and think about what he did to you and realize that your wasting your time crying over someone that can treat you like that i think you should fix yourself up and go out with some friends enjoy yourself. . . you might find a rebound guy and grow an even better relationship with him but don't give in so quick. . . remember one mans loss is another mans treasure. . .
2006-11-02 12:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tears help with closure hon. It will get easier. One of these days, as clique as it sounds, you will realize that it is his loss. You've got to go through the jerks so that when you find a real man you know how to appreciate him.
2006-11-02 11:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT easy...I know. You really have to keep yourself busy and pre-occupied. Before you know it something will remind you again, but by then, your pain will be less. Find a church where you can find God and guidence to help you overcome the pain.
This is ONE main reason you should'nt commit to sex with a man before marriage....The regrets after. Good Luck.
2006-11-02 11:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by DayLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋