Why is she acting weird?

Question

Me and my cousin are like the closes but theres a big age gap she 23 and im 16 we act exactly alike everyone says im a 20 yr old trapped ina 16 yr olds body so im very mature for my age. well so ya we did everytrhing together and we were the best of friends well ive moved to texas and ive been out here for 4 months and now when i call her she never answers and she never calls be back well im going to ca on the 16 and i was going to go see her for thankgiving and the day after but she said she has to work when my bro went out there she took days off for him and she wont do it for me why not she calls me and tells me all the time shes misses me and all this stuff so my questions is why wont she take work off for me?

Answer 1

ask her why she wont, tell her you know she has taken time off for your brother why not for you, only she can answer this question for you!

Answer 2

Wel in work its not so easy to say hey my other cousin is coming in town so I have to take off again..... maybe her boss won't let her. I am sure she misses you, but you have to think she has another life out there, maybe she has a BF also now. Who knows. Your ages are very different and your lives are very different your still in high school and she should be out of college by now. I was in a simialr situation, my cousin is older than me and she moved out of state and our relationship moved apart. We still talk randomly and what not and I love her so much but sometimes i don't return her call either, things just come up in life. Don't stress she is family and she loves you. And you never know maybe she will be able to take a day or two off so you two can hang out. it could be that she is suprising you. Don't stress.... but I must admit I think its cute that you think so highly of your cousin that this would upset you.... very cute!! Now I am going to have to call my cousin and say hi....