Ok my friend sam and i are as close as ever.... or so i thoght.... she ignores me when shes with Lenore, Daisy, jennifer and marissa but when they all leave her then she comes to me.. i dont like this what do i do with out losing a good friend i had for 2 years
2006-11-02 03:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how you feel.
2006-11-02 03:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by LynetteG84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that if she wants to be friends then she needs to treat you with respect. She should never make u feel lower by ignoring u with other people. She doesn't seem like the friend you need and when u need her to be. She is not the friend u think she is if she ignores u. She should be the friend that stands up for u when others are rude to you or behind ur back.
2006-11-02 11:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by someone ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it upsets you so much, talk to her about it and damn the consequences. she is a friend, not family - unfortuantely friends are not normally forever. even the few that i have been friends with for more than10 years i don't talk to often anymore. you go up and often don't get to spend as much time with them - why do i go on about this? because you are still young and still have the opportunity to hang out with people who like you reguardless of who is around. you still get to have lots of friends - and they should all be important, and at no time should someone be ostracized just because of who is around. there are plenty of other people in your class or classes above and below you who will be your friend. if she doesn't want to be your friend all the time, then she underappreciates you. at your age - part time friends need not apply.
i know this doesn't answer the way you want it to, but i hope it helps you realize that you are important enough to deserve her attention no matter what - you do not deserve to be ignored and she needs to realize that.
2006-11-02 11:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good of a friend can she be, if she ignores you when she is with other people? Also she is only with you when the others are not around. That don't sound like a friend to me, she is just somebody you know.
2006-11-02 11:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is ashamed of you .. or her friends dont like you but she likes you. .so she doesnt want to stop being friends with you but at the same time she wants to be friends with them to.. so she has to do what shes doing to you in order to have all her friends. Dont ruin a good friendship.. when they are hard to find. she is just trying to keep all her friends..and not be on sides. and she obviously doesnt want to loose you as a friend. that shes been friends to for 2 yrs. At least your still friends will her.. theres times where you loose your friend all together.
2006-11-02 11:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously see her as more of a friend than she sees you. You can only ask her why she feels the need to treat you like sloppy seconds.
2006-11-02 11:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a good friend if she treats you like that. You're better than that. Find a new friend.
2006-11-02 11:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be her friend but get others to be close to also. we as people are needy for friendships and love, it is not healthy to only have 1 close friend
2006-11-02 11:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maintain your dignity. Your friend will come back to you if she is worth you.
2006-11-02 11:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let he rknow you feel second best always be honest with your best friends ele you'll lose them
2006-11-02 11:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋