My husband and I seperated this summer for a rew months. While we were seperated I slept with another man2-3 days into my period Aug 5. Two weeks later my husband and I got back together and sex Aug 17 or so. Now I'm pregnant and don't know who the father is.my due date is May 10. I have an appointment to get an ultrasound, do any of you educated people have any advice?
2006-11-02 03:31:39 · 16 answers · asked by babyboyz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Wow That's a tough one I will pray for you but typically they will go by the first day of your last period. So the date the date they gave you May 10 th would make it your husbands baby.http://www.intmed.mcw.edu/clincalc/pregnancy.html Only an ultrasound can tell for sure and that will give you an exact date within a day or two. Good Luck sweetie and I hope things work out for you. No matter what this baby is a blessing and try to remember that.. I conceived on August 11th last year and my due date was May 4 th . So personally I believe this baby is your husbands.
2006-11-02 03:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by mary3127 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it is your husband, but there is no guarantee. However, according to the dates you gave, it would be your husbands because of the ovulation time and fertile times. It's a close call.
I wouldn't worry about it. As long as your husband is aware that the baby might not be his and he doesn't care and is willing to love and raise the baby regardless, then why should you. It's not something to fret over.
2006-11-02 11:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you count 40 weeks from Aug 5th you get a due date of May 12th so right now your looking at the first guy!! Ultra sound will update your due date so things may change, the only certain way is a DNA test
2006-11-02 11:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jody 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if ur cycle is normal then u wud have ovulated around aug 16 or 17, so it's probably ur husband's.
but women can fall pregnant on their period too, so it's best to get a dna test if ur really want to know.
2006-11-03 04:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by marmalade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to look at your cycle and see who you had sex with around ovulation. More than liely its your husband because you prolly weren't ovulating when you were with the other guy.
NOW.. whether or not you were "seperated" you were still MARRIED... tha'ts a lieftime commitment, and you should have known better to have sex with another man... let alone UNPROTECTED sex.. Does your husband know about this other guy? if not, you NEED to tell him.. for your's your husbands and the babies sake....
God Bless
2006-11-02 11:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Allycea's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is most likely your husbands... I got pregnant in August 18 and had my son on May 2 that was because he was preemie, so it is definitely your husbands... But talk to your DR and let them know that it;s confidential and they will find a way to help you..
2006-11-02 11:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by rp12801280 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your dates concerning your period are correct, then you were ovulating when you and your husband had sex. Therefore, your husband is the father of your baby.
2006-11-02 11:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a mess!! i think it most chances r its ur husbands but only the dna can tell. good luck
2006-11-02 11:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
from a medical standpoint, I would guess your husbands, by the dates you gave, but have a blood serum pregnancy test, and this will confirm who is the father.
2006-11-02 11:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unprotected sex with both?
Ugg.
Talk to your doctor.
Or you could wait until the baby is born and take a trip to see Maury.
2006-11-02 11:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋