least house contact with wife?

Question

I dont like my wife anymore, but I dont want a divorce since we have a 2 years old daughter.
How can I minimize house contact with my wife so that I can still see my duaghter everyday but without having to deal with my wife(at the least minimal contact)?
any ideaswill be appreciated

I am not trying to find an excuse so that I get another affair, there is no line of communications between us, honestly the IQ gap is huge, I am sorry to say that & I didint believe it in the begining but this is the results I got to.

NB: why some answers add nomn-existant detials to my relationship from their own imagination?
I just wanted some advices but not blames for things I didn't do.

Answer 1

Do her a favor and get a divorce. Your wife is the mother of your child. Giver her some respect here.

Answer 2

Don't believe the above. The child will remember the abandonment. Why don't you like your wife. How about treating her like you do your friends, showing the same respect. Make a regular date wit a babysitter and take her out once a week for two months. Your life will change. Don't make excuses to have an affair, buddy.

Answer 3

That's a difficult situation without an easy answer. You really might want to consider divorce with joint custody of your daughter. Living together, but avoiding each other, isn't healthy for your child. Children sense when things aren't right between parents, and this can really have a negative impact on them. You may want to consider counseling to find out how to best resolve your issues.

Answer 4

You made a commitment when you got married to love her thru good and bad.

This is the bad time - instead of trying to hide from your women try working on your marriage.

Stop the whining like she is, overweight, ignoring me or too tired for sex.

Start with helping more around the house, listening to her vent without any put downs, and getting a babysittert once a week so you and your women can have a night out.

You will see an immediate turn around in your women and then the marriage will be good again.

Answer 5

Why don't you try and work out the differences with your wife, so you don't end up in divorce. Avoiding her will just fuel the fire. Try and work through things, I am sure your daughter already can sense the tension, and if it doesn't work out, then separate. If you want some one on one with your daughter, take her to the park, or library, or for a walk or something, but try to work through the marital issues, in a mature constructive way. Good luck.

Answer 6

I don't like my wife sometimes, umm in the AM before coffee.

You really can't do that very well. You leave yourself open to being used and or miserable. Not much info to go on but if she rides a broom stick to work then she will go out of her way to torment you.

If your going that route, get house put in daughters name so it can't be sold. Get who is responsible for what expenses on paper now.

How would you feel is she said she was going out on a date and wanted you to watch your daughter? & if she brings the dude home afterwords. Little awkward.

Answer 7

Assuming your son lives interior the united kingdom... If his divorce is being dealt with by skill of a solicitor then he ought to touch his solicitor for suggestion on what action to take. As others have mentioned this is fraud yet, given the family members difficulty, the police won't be arranged to realize this. If he's coping with the divorce himself then he might % to circulate and see his close by voters suggestion Bureau.

Answer 8

You should get a divorce.. and get visatation rights to your 2 yr old daughter. .all your doing is holding yourself back from the person that one day will fall inlove with you.. (im not talking about your wife) but someone else that can fulfill you. but thats not the question your asking. so the advise id give you is.., go places alot and find a hobby that will take up your time.. or go places with just you and your daugher. and tell her you just want to spend time with just her. also.. Go hang out with friends alot but tell her youll be doing something she doesnt like that way she isnt interested.

Answer 9

Work different schedules, serously get out now then the child will not have to deal with the breakup that will happen. Then shell have two parents who love her they just dont live together

Answer 10

THIS question is ridiculous. You either are a married couple or your not. If you want to limit contact with her you need to divorce her and get joint custoday. Staying together BUT separate for the sake of a child is ridiculous. Grow up.