I have to tell that I am a good looking woman, with a brain works properly
2006-11-02 03:12:22 · 8 answers · asked by northener70 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it is all about the connection. finding someone that you connect well with. it really is hard finding these people in bars, parties, etc. some people do it online first, some people find others that have the same interst in clubs and such, and a whole bunch other ways.
the only advise I always give people is don't settle for what doesn't work for you. people settle to much because they want to be in love and will grab the first person that gives them interest. no wait for the right person and you will be happier in the long run.
2006-11-02 03:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are approx 295 milliion americans. Probably less than half are males. Most get married in their 20s, get divorced in their 30s. The available men in the country fluctuates with their age group. If you dont get married by the age of 25, you are gonna have to wait till your age groups starts divorcing in their 30s...
A better way to do it is this...
You just need more social activities in your life that are positive. Join a gym, go to the shooting range, join a club that helps kids stay off drugs, stuff like that. You will have so many men after you, you wont believe it. The reason is that these types of men dont frequent bars and have the same trouble finding someone just like you do.
2006-11-02 11:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anna M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you work at being happy and complete on your own, the chances are that you'll find a man then. Confidence, and being in a good place irrespective of others are attractive traits in themselves, and it's also a case of sod's law. So don't worry about it, be happy and enjoy life on your own and with your mates, and the chances are you'll find a bloke without even looking.
2006-11-02 11:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all depends what you are looking for, can't get all in one, may be 60% good and 40% bad, this is the average person I am seeing, if everything perfect he will be sitting in the middle of a shrine do nothing..
2006-11-02 11:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Drone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your avatar looks like you in real life, then I suggest that you loose those rose-colored glasses. Get the latest fashion type of glasses or get contact lenses. You will look more attractive. And perhaps then you will find a man.
2006-11-02 11:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down.Your man is probably closer to you than the places you are looking for him.Good looks help but are not the defining quality.Talk to the men you meet without trying to impress them.You're more beautiful than you think...
2006-11-02 11:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by TREVOR B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a man prefers a woman who is "at par" or even worse off than him, so he feels confident with his woman. If you are too good, they feel inferior and have no confidence to date you...
2006-11-02 11:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Schizophrenic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your standards may be too high... I am still single at 49 so you are not the only person that is finding it hard to find a single person of the opisate sex
2006-11-02 11:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋