If your husband had a lapdance with a stripper, is it considered cheating?

Answer 1

No, I definatley don't think that's cheating.After all how did you find this out? He told you, didn't he. Don't sweat the small stuff, life is too good.

Answer 2

Seriously, I think a lot of people that have answered you actually need to talk to a stripper or 2. Yeah, there are the ultra nasty skanky stripper types, but dont let your man go to those clubs. A lot of strippers are really great people just making good money exploiting stupid guys. (and yes, i give them plenty of money, oh and my wife does too)
Cheating is always your own definition. But trust me, having a few friends who are strippers, they can care less about your man. No matter how much guys think they want them, they dont. If half the party doesnt care about doing anything, i dont think its cheating.

Answer 3

I tell my boyfriend don't do anything you would get upset about me doing. That keeps things a little more fair. But I would be very upset if he got a lapdance, I do belive that is a form of cheating.

Answer 4

I think it's called disrespect. I don't think it would be considered cheating but most definitely he should not be there. As you can tell, different people have VERY different views on this. Lets' go ahead and say it, strippers aren't the cream of the crop as far as morals go, so therefore, alot of times I think it could lead to other things.

Answer 5

Of course not! Cheating isn't about physical contact with another person, it isn't even about an emotional connection with another person, it is about dishonesty and keeping secrets from your spouse.

If he told you he was going to a strip club, and then told you what happened, he is being completely honest with you so you should be happy to have such open communication.

If he hid the truth and told you nothing happened (when it really did) or that he didn't even go to the club, he'd be being dishonest and THAT would mean relationship troubles.

Answer 6

Oh hell yes. I told my fiance if he even goes near a strip club I will leave him instantly and I will do it to. It is cheating, those girls are worthless dirty disease ridden whores. I'm hotter and cleaner then they are so he has no reason to go. I'm lucky because he actually does hate those places and thinks they are a waste of money but just incase he ever got any ideas I warned him in advance what would happen.

Answer 7

Not at all...if you recienved a lapdance from a guy, do YOU consider it cheating?

Go to the strip club with him, you'll see it's no big deal.

Answer 8

It could be consider both yes & no it's a guy thing I have alot of male friends that thinks it a cool thing to have done, just talk to your husband about it & let him know that it upset you & ask him how he would feel if you had a male give you a lap dance or better yet give him one yourself & make it fun.

Answer 9

Yes and NO.
It depends on your relationship. In my house, yes, I would say that was cheating. In my sisters house, no, it is just an innocent dance. Did he sneak around and lie to you about, if yes. Than he was cheating. If he was just out with some buddies and it was just a joke, then don't sweat it.

Answer 10

Ofcourse.One lap dance is undesirable sufficient,yet 2,that too at a private area,by way of a stripper? And your guy enjoyed it and did no longer trouble to respond to your calls the two.Now,tht ought to be labelled as cheating for my area. Your hus had undesirable intentions in his ideas tht night,for beneficial. yet you too are in charge for in spite of occurred, in a fashion.Bachelor events are effective,yet at strip golf equipment? no longer executed,darling.You on no account be responsive to while adult adult males sway.

Answer 11

NO,,,, As long he's ready to give me a lapdance when he come home from the club...