on the 21st day of my cycle, my boyfriend and i were engaging in dry sex. we both had just underwear on. at one point he took his penis out and pressed it against my vagina. it did not go it at all. the only thing i cannot remember is if he moved my underwear and then pressed against me, or if it was through my underwear. all i know is that it did not go in. he was not close to orgasm, he just touched me for maybe 4 seconds then he stopped and put it back in his pants. He had not had an orgasm since the morning before (friday morning) and this was saturday night. He had peed at least twice between the occasions. My question is, could i be pregnant from his precum?
I usually have a 29 day cycle. My last period began on September 29, and was supposed to arrive on October 28. it is now November 2, making my period 5 days late. The only thing I have gotten is brown/red spotting and very very light cramps...implantation bleeding? It has lasted for about a day and a half.
2006-11-02 01:42:25 · 21 answers · asked by vandee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
unlikely but take a home pregnancy test to make your self feel less stressed.
2006-11-02 01:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by IamMuslimah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Seriously doubt that you are pregnant, but at the same time pre-c** can impregnate you...you are probably just stressing about it which is preventing your period from comming fully. if you still don't get a period in a week or two and still think you may be pregnant than go to a doctor to be checked. Many, Many things can cause changes in your period including but not limited to stress/ anxhiety, diet, weight gain or loss, level of activity Increase or Decrease, new medications or ailements, even having a cold... Just relax and Call your doc If you still feel like something is wrong.
2006-11-02 01:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Thats really intense. It is very unlikely that you are pregnant. You are probably strassing out. Stress can slow or even stop your period. You need to try to relax and I am sure it will come.
Other subject: I understand you are not ready to have sex. But you both need to realize that getting that "close" can cause problems. Sperm swim like crazy. All your bf needs to do is precome just a bit and if he is too close to the opening of your vagina (accidental or not) you can have a big problem on your hands. You still need to be alot safer with your messing around!
2006-11-02 01:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is HIGHLY UNILKELY that you are pregnant, though not impossible. You would get an accurate reading at this point from a home test if that would ease your mind.
The little scare is good for you, though. It should motivate you to talk to your boyfriend about your sex lives, and where they're going. Whether you're planning on having sex with him soon or later, you should start looking into birth control.
if you're not planning on having intercourse, you and he should talk about safe sexual practices. Make rules for that sort of thing. There's no reason why you can't say "honey, you can rub against me, but you gotta wear a condom" - but if you think that'll lead to sex, then maybe you should instead think of other ways to fool around that don't involve genital contact!
You should also talk to him about pregnancy, if it ever does happen.
2006-11-02 01:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Emily O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not likely that you could have gotten pregnant. Stressing out about the possibility of being pregnant can cause your body and your cycle to go crazy and have symptoms or skip or cause your period to be late. Get a home test to put your mind at ease.
2006-11-02 01:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
girl, if you are afraid of pregnancy, stop the dry sex. anything can happen in the process.
though you may not be pregnant now, i know a lady who was a virgin and got pregnant in the couse of toying with the genitals.
the b/friend,s semens got into the virginal, thru thr elasticity of the walls of the virginal in the process of rubbing the penis aginst it.
the baby boy is 3yrs now.
needless to say, it was funny, but it happened. if ur concern is pregnancy, stop allowing ur boy,s penis in ur virginal, it could get in when you least expect, if you want to keep ur virginity, stop it too becos it could break unexpectetly.
2006-11-02 01:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by nicething 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very unlikely, but it is possible. Stress can make you late, so take a home test and it will put your mind at ease. In the future, if there is going to be any contact, then you should use a condom.
2006-11-02 01:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely you are not pregnant. Is it possible? Yes - but VERY unlikely. You are probably stressed out which is making it worse. Relax and wait a few more days. Or just go get a pregnancy test if you can.
2006-11-02 01:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there's a very, very small chance that ur pregnant. take a test now, and then again after a week or 2, or just get a blood test done at the doc.
2006-11-02 21:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by marmalade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lot of work for not having sex. I recommend just having real sex with a condom - why fight it?!
Anyway, you're not pregnant. I don't see how you could be.
Thumbs up to "survival_paul" above. At age 20 you should be alot more educated about sex.
2006-11-02 01:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by Trixie D 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋