2006-11-02 01:12:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i guess because 'men in the west' don't have unrealistic expectations. why is virginity so important to you? how could 'women of the middle east' marry not virgin men? why the double standard?
2006-11-02 01:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, In America, where I am from, we are a free country.....we can do whatever we want! And we strive for equality....where men and women are equal....and just as men sleep around...so do women. It's not illegal. I have read about other countries....where women get raped by men....and then their husband, brother, father or uncle BEATS them and KILLS them because they are not a virgin anymore! Where is the logic in that? And you people say your religion is peaceful? If you ever visit America, you would not like it....because if you treat a woman like she is below you....she might come back and kick your a s s! Or YOU will be the one to be persecuted...and sent to prison! We all know what goes on over there where you are....and we feel sorry for every last one of you. Maybe if you had better education you would learn more about other cultures and you would not have to ask this question.
2006-11-02 09:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is that means all the Non-virgin cannot get marry and have family??what happen if a girl got rape? what would you suggest her to do? suicide because she is no longer a virgin?? Frankly, there are more divorce case in the western countries, compare to eastern country, but that doesn't mean the eastern country people are loyal to their spouse! the truth is, when the western people cheat, they simply get divorce,and when the eastern people cheat, the spouse just close her/his eyes and let the cheating carry on, because they see divorce is a great shame to the family. there is really no way to say who is more "whore" because whore is everywhere all around the world, most of the whore in eastern countries are for money, and those in western are simply consensual. I don't know if you are the guy that are looking for a virgin wife, but i'm glad in nowadays modern world, peoples evolve and became wiser and they are looking for the "truevalue of one's inside beauty", not just by one's physical virginity. But there is 1 advise for you if you are looking for a virgin wife, if after you marry a virgin, and discorver that she refuse to have sex or don't like sex after the 1st attempt or simply just don't like to have sex (not to mentioned to have any children), you'll have to prepare for adoption or have no sex, no child through out your whole life, or you will have to divorce, but that is not nice too if people at the place you from see virginity as great deal, she might not be able to get marry again and you will have to look for a another virgin?and how many virgin will be available in this world? can anyone tell are there females more than males or males more than females in this world?
2006-11-05 16:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by bibi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When two people fall in love with each other that love should be unconditional. Whatever that person has done in the past should be forgiven by their spouse. That couple has the opportunity to start fresh. It is very unfair to hang one's past over their head forever. Second of all here in "the west" there are many, many people who do NOT frown upon two women having slept together.
2006-11-02 04:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is no sure-fire way to tell if any girl is a virgin or not. So instead of spending so much time worrying about a virgin girl, concentrate on selecting a bride who is kind and gentle and loving and intelligent and hard-working and filled with integrity and honest and a wonderful personality and sense of humor.
2006-11-02 01:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
How could a woman marry a man who is not a virgin? Double standard buddy. Besides, a lot of people don't want to get married until they are in their 30's these days (could you imagine a normal man or woman not having sex until then?) This isn't the 16th century where people got married at age 14.
2006-11-02 01:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by 13th Floor 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Very simply, they aren't sexually immature, they aren't as completely brainwashed by their religion AND aren't hypocritical in the fact when demanding a virgin considering that many of the MEN are not virgins when they marry. Were you a virgin? If not, by what right do you demand this of any potential mate that you seek?
2006-11-02 01:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, around here, we feel there are more important qualifications for marriage than virginity.
Besides, after your first night together, she'll stop being a virgin; if you haven't chosen your wife for something other than her sexual innocence, then what on earth has she got to recommend her?
Additional Fun Fact: speaking as a woman, I didn't object that my husband, who was a widower, had clearly had prior sexual experience. Should I have held out for a virgin man?
2006-11-02 01:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unlike the custom in most Muslim countries there is an objection, in western countries, to the custom of killing the bride, if at the wedding night she is found not to be a virgin.
2006-11-02 01:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's a cultural thing. You have to ask yourself what are you afraid of. Is it that he was better than you and she would like it better? Wouldn't you rather have a woman CHOOSE you because you make her feel better than anyone else. And don't you think that a woman who has only been with one man will be THINKING about what other men are like?
2006-11-02 01:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋