the men cheat left the wife for somebody else and have children with the new partner the husband have start a new life been living with the partner for 7 years why the wife still dont want to gat divorce
2006-11-02 00:40:43 · 28 answers · asked by bella 28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sometimes the ex wont divorce because it's pay back time, spite, getting even, not wanting to see him happy with someone else, very petty i think even though the partner is in a new relationship, i just think that they do this deliberately to get ones back up...some do that just to be awkward, i couldn't wait to get them papers signed, the last thing i wanted was a cheating partner in my life, because now he is cheating on his partner, it's only a matter of time before she serves him with the papers, but i think that anyone who has moved on in their lives should be set free and allowed to get on with things, but some women just don't don't like to see them happy....shame...if this is your case, you can divorce her, i mean after 7 years, i think it's time to turn the tables and get them papers served to her instead
2006-11-02 00:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women do this for different reasons. One they might have a hard time letting go of their spouse. Two they might feel if they don't rush into the divorce their spouse will come back to them. Three they could feel if they delay the divorce it will prevent their spouse from totaling going on with their life with another woman. Four it could be because they feel insecure and don't feel they can make it on their own. There could be a number of reasons why they will not let it go. Love, Sadness, Revenge, Insecure, etc.
2006-11-02 09:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably cos they cant get over the fact that their relationship failed....i work with a woman who found out her husband of 20 years had been having an affair with a younger woman for 4 years ....when she found out about the affair he had already left the marital home...she went crazy...following him around and spying on him and she involved all his friends and family.....she was upset but she acted like a victim but you could tell she was really really angry....anyway after months of fighting between each other and the wife harrasing his girlfriend the husband returned home because he couldnt bear his daughter being stuck in the middle and made to take sides and also his wife threatened to tell his elderly frail mother what hed been up to... its been two years since he went home and she says nothing has changed....no bedroom action...he spends as little time at home as possible and they dont socialise together....he actually refuses to take her out or spend any time with her...and purpously takes jobs working away so he doesnt see her....i sometimes asks her why she just didnt kick him out and get a good happy life for herself....she says she doesnt love him but cos shes been married 20 years she figures he owes her....the house is his he bought it before they married...and she thinks she will get ripped off by him...i cant understand her at all because he told her he doesnt want or love her,she doesnt love him so whats the point....seems its the money thats behind it.
2006-11-02 13:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by kubla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her husband is her financial plan. It's very hard for a woman to become single and start her life over again. Even moreso if she's never had to work. Why doesn't he file for divorce? What a mess.
2006-11-02 08:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I am not a lawyer ... If the husband wants to get divorced .. he will ... I can't see the wife stopping him for 7 years...
Dr BAD
2006-11-02 11:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is a punishment. When she needs to she will but she is the one in charge and she will do it in her own time. perhaps she doesn't want to move on. But saying that I think the husband can divorce her after 2 year separation
2006-11-02 09:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by sweetiesweetydarling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religious upbringing?
I grew up in a strict Baptist church and divorce was looked down upon, but then I never thought divorce was wrong. I've seen too many people stay in terrible marriages because they didn't want to look bad to the church if they got divorced. There ARE good reasons to divorce sometimes.
2006-11-02 08:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably has not found the right person that wont hurt her again. So she sees that your happiness is her pain so she knows that you want to marry her ex and she does not want to give you the satisfaction. i think that she is just being spiteful. Maybe if she gets out there again and finds someone else she might just let go. Maybe you should be her friend and show her that life is not over and she should start dating again.
2006-11-02 08:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by terri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a hard time letting go. Be her friend and help her to understand she deserves better than what he offered her. If she can just move on she will find that there are men out there that will not cheat on her and will treat her right.
2006-11-02 08:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it sometimes to kind of get even with the husband - the only way to hit back is to prevent them from starting their life over i'm not speaking from personal experience but from observation
2006-11-02 11:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋