2006-11-02 00:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by Sahil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all Whatever you do plz complete your studies and settle down first. Patience is the key. Persuade your parents to consider the partner you've chosen for yourself. just don't be afraid to approch them, love is not a crime. Don't pressurise your parents as they tend to get more irritated from that. talk to them , ask them to meet the girl u've chosen to spend your rest of the life with. don't get disheartened if they say no initially. Tell them you'll not marry this person unless they don't agree for it but also make them realise that you wont/cant marry anyother person. Whatever you do plz don't elope with your partner, this increases friction amongst the family and your parents will always view your partner in the light the-one-who-stole-their-son -from-them... i wish you guys best of luck !
2006-11-02 01:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...if your family is disapproving, usually its because they see something you don't I know a family personally that this happened to, the only difference was that it was a woman and her brothers, sisters, parents everything disapproved of him and told him he was bad for her. She got married anyways and realized all too soon what he was really like.
Yes...love is supposed to conquer all, but sometimes it doesn't. DON'T marry without your familys approval unless YOU want to hurt your family. Family will always be there but BF's/GF's come and go. Try talking to them and asking them why they won't allow you to marry her. Love is blind in a sense and sometimes you don't see everything about a person, and often your family and friends can see what you can't see.
2006-11-02 01:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Where do you live? This is the USA and if you over 18 you can marry whoever you want. Your family may not speak to you anymore but you can still do it.
2006-11-02 00:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it anyway... Love will find a way! Do you really wanna go through life wondering why you didn't marry that girl? I think you should... I married someone who my WHOLE family told me not to, the married ended, but it was MY decision to get married. I learned based on MY experience... Not theirs. Its your life, you should be able to make your own decisions.
2006-11-02 00:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by beau0021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no better feeling than having your family members approve your relationship. If the reason why your family does not approve it is not great (such as religion/beliefs or perhaps same-sex marriage hahaha! just kidding!), you should attempt to make them see why you chose your partner. Ask them what they don't like about your partner and explain to them why she is like that or not.
2006-11-02 00:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it have to do anything with religion? Or race? I was in that situation once and i married for me, not my parents. You have to make your mistakes in life. That is a part of life and remember that it is your life. I am not telling you to marry her but don't forget your family either. Have you tried bringing them all together to talk?
2006-11-02 00:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by terri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's like my tale, except i'm the female who likes the chum. To be straightforward i might want to sense annoyed at you in case you've been attempting to make me hate the boy i love so i wager you need to enable her bypass. discover some different person to love (which i understand that's no longer uncomplicated) yet i'm declaring this because in case your chum and the female social gathering, you may want to loose your friendship with the guy and be depressing once you word them 2 jointly.
2016-10-16 07:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by irish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sahil,
It is a great thing to love someone and be loved by someone.
So dont you think your parents love you more than your girlfriend.
Think about it ,you girlfriend could abandon you ,but your parents woulndt think of it even if it costs them their lives.
Make up your mind.She can still be your friend
2006-11-02 00:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart...marry the one you love, as the wife you make becomes your family. whether it be for religious reasons or cultural reasons, its you who has your life now and your love for a person they do not care for may be hard for you to accept but if you think its right and can take on the challenges go and be happy..good luck, take care...
2006-11-02 00:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by peaches and cream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family and relatives may be right otherwise you need to convince them that you both cannot be seperated. You need to think well and plan your future life . Do you have your own family? then this will not apply.!
2006-11-06 00:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by mohandas m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋