My so called "best friend" has been saying mean things about me to others. She's trying to popular, which is clear to EVERYONE BUT...she's trying TOO hard! She can't make with our classmates convo so she just puts her arm around and tries to act "funny" and "cute" with all this she's ignoring me. I don't care if she jumps off a well but y dose she have to say stuff about me? At the beggining of the year I said I would like this teacher but things did not turn out that way and I regret ever saying that. So she tells everyone that!!! She also says that we always fight and things are ok after a day or two. That hasn't happened since grade 4! IMMATURE...
So I told other friends about her life. I want revenge!ahh!
2006-11-02 00:06:19 · 12 answers · asked by forget it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you're a teenager aren't you?
2006-11-02 00:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by fugue.state 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is imature on behalf too. why stoop to her level even though she has done so many horrible things to you when you could ignore her! either ignore her or find another best friend! look, i tried revenge on someone and was close to getting there except that i remembered that my parents and sister have told me that if someone is making you feel bad or is talking behind your back ignore them! as well as that the smart person comes out on the top! ditch her, find yourself a new best friend but be careful who you pick because it is not the quanity but rather the quality! if you move on with your life you will be the one more mature as opposed to the one who could get even and look imature ! i am trying to save you time and energy since i am 22 and i have been there and done that! and no real best friend does what she does! find yourself someone who is not so fake and arrogant and two faced!the only reason that she is doing this is called being insecure and jealous of you! at least you have a good head on your shoulders, are not that insecure and only insecure people will try and succeed at putting others down so that is her job! look at it this way: she is jealous because you are everyone's friend, can get along with easily, people love you ! that is your revenge-act the way you do !
2006-11-02 00:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you see her trying to worm her way into a group by getting chummy and touchy feelie. Walk by and say something like "watch the Dyke" or "carpet licker has her hands on you". Talk about revenge - this would be so hateful that they would run from her or next time you could go by saying "open to dyke touching are you".
Please reconsider and take the high road by just quietly telling everyone so the word gets around that you are most upset that someone would try to get ahead by saying nasty things about her friends and that you are glad she is no longer your friend and hope others are not taken in by her acts.
2006-11-02 00:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the way. She is seeking the attention she never got in her life. It is a selfish thing to do but she can't help herself,. She is jealous that you are liked and she wants to present to everyone that you and her are a team. Unfortunately she is bashing you and acting irresponsible. It is time to distance yourself from her and leave her be for a while. She needs to get caught in her own stew and lies and fall on her face without your help. Sooner than later it will happen to her because you will not be around to be her punching bag... This a a period of adjustment for her and it is her time to learn that friendship is much more important than the spotlight in a circle of people.
2006-11-02 00:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah okay get your revenge but think before you say anything, why try to get revenge when shes just gonna say something back its never gonna stop between you guys. now lets say you did say all the things you can think of to wreck her life now what?! you just gonna keep doin it all the time, she didn't tell you all that stuff so you can tell everyone, if you guys was friends before then that means she trusted you to keep her secrets.
2006-11-02 00:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Baby G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mature of you to extract revenge ... if you had ignored the problem and put yourself above revenge she would not have anything bad to say about you , now your creating an on going fight with gossip about each other .Maybe people would like you even more if you didn't say anything about her or others.. Silence is Golden
2006-11-02 00:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growing up is hard to do.You'll see sooner or later.
This so called friend of yours sounds so immature,both of you need growing up to do.There are a lot of people out there who you can become friends with,revenge won't get you nowhere believe me i tried that already.SO get on with your life and look for new friends who'll accept you for who you are.
2006-11-02 00:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear x,
If ur best frnd is doing such a deed,then she isn't ur frnd.i think u must ask her the reason for her act.in this way things may get sort out.and if u are doing the same thing she is,then there would be no difference between u 2!so.........go ahead!
2006-11-02 00:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by purva s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be immature right back and ignore her, if she doesnt stop shes not your friend, and put her in check! slap that ***** in her face!!!!
2006-11-02 00:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but no
2006-11-02 00:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by kwelascumbers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋