but my parents are very religious so please tell me what should i do? presently i m preparing for CAT and he is a software engineer.
2006-11-02 00:03:04 · 15 answers · asked by ssavi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
O "MALKOO" NO PROBLEM GO AHEAD "TAHANU SADA GOOD LUCK"
2006-11-02 01:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi friend am a Keralite . I would like to say that u have to stay with u r family , they are the people who makes u to reach up to here .For that they may suffer a lot .So at last time throwing them out and placing another is not a good thing for an Indian like we .So my opinion as a friend is to first u approach your parents about this and play what they are saying .Now u r preparing for the CAT .in this time u have to concentrate in your coaching .Am an MBA student in IIM so i know what future is waiting 4 u if u got CAT so leave other things go with u r studies and a good girl of u r parents
2006-11-02 00:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...my choti masi is in the same position as u...her parents r sooo strict in their religion...they hadn't let her cut her hair either...she told her older sister....and is gonna break the news to her parentz within a year...i KNOW her parentz won't be happy...in fact, she's abt to get herself into A LOT of mess...I would recommend u to reconsider ur decision 'cuz it's gonna hurt ur parentz a lot & u'll probably lose their trust...if u wanna maintain ur relations with them, then find a punjabi guy. But if u decide 2 follow ur heart, then itz ur decision. Just beware of the consequences 'cuz inter-cast marriagez come with a lot of problems than arranged marriagez. GUd luck gurl !
2006-11-02 12:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't marry each other unless both of you are in the same religion.so you must either be a christian or he must be a punjabi. try convincing your parents that he's the one you love truely,madly and deeply.don't think much on marrige now.concentrate on your CAT exam instead.remember these wise words,"when there's a will, there's a way"
2006-11-02 00:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Alexa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not ?????????? Of course you can marry him but wait for the right time.Now your career is important.Get settled ..Get going.But i sincerely hope your parents may agree.Because where parents are not happy children's suffer.My friend is also tensed for the same thing. She is a Hindu while her boyfriend is Muslim. Don't worry in course of time everything will be fine.
2006-11-02 22:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♪♥*B.B.K*♥♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never hurt your parents do what they wish . just ask them coolly about What they think about inter-cast marriage . you will get your answer.
ASK in Cool manner. don't be serious and ask .u will get their point of view.
The World wont come down if u marry a Christian.
2006-11-02 00:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yaa u can do marriage with him i like your choice your future is bright with him if u both really love with each other then religion does not matter it may be possible that u have to choose your family or your love then choose your love ok live is life dear...
but before that take enough time n try 2 make positive situation.
then take final desicion,good luck.
2006-11-02 06:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first finish of ur CAT get a degree and then go 4 marriage
2006-11-02 00:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is no problem in marry. i think both of you alredy cross 18 year so legally no one can bind you to do marriage. But it will be batter if you give your CAT exam 1st ......
2006-11-02 00:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Soman R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hold off on marriage until the "boy" becomes a man.
2006-11-02 00:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a Christian, because Christians are not supposed to marry nonbelievers. That is not because of parents, but because of the Word of God. And yes, wait until he becomes a Christian man.
2006-11-02 00:07:53 · answer #11 · answered by reba 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋