What is going on???with my ex?
why does he do this and what does it mean???please help?
he left me and he keeps contacting me. he eventually said he was cutting all contact and changed his number. then he contacts me by pranking my phone and rining my sister. why say no contact and keep contacting me. and why does he keep contacting me like turning up at my house and work?does he still have feelings for me?otherwise why would he still contact me?im confused
does no contact really work to bring an ex back??
2006-11-01 22:58:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he obviously still likes you. My ex usually did that but stopped when he realised that he was wasting his time as i did not bother myself with him. so if u don't want him back please just avoid getting concerned about hes doings,ok? however if ur still in like with him that is the perfect opportunity to get the show on the road once again. take control of the situation. Play games with him to make sure that he is really not playing games as well.
2006-11-01 23:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that when he says no contact he means that you must not contact him but he can do what ever he wants. You need to learn how not to react to him. It is time to move on and find a new life that does not involve him. I also believe that he is checking up on you to confirm that you still need him or that you haven't got someone new. Ask yourself what do you want and go for it. Good Luck
2006-11-01 23:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by christine w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by the things you are saying yes he probably does still have feelings about you. maybe he keeps saying that he is cutting contact with you cause he wants to get over you but he just can't. talk to him and ask him what is this all about and who knows maybe you will end up together again
2006-11-01 23:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds mixed up or he could just be after something(sex/money etc)
I would'nt bother with him myself.Everyone likes to know where they stand.
Good Luck X
2006-11-01 23:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Nic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys have really poor coping mechanisms..
guys break up with you, but can't bear to see that you're doing fine, like they want you to grovel and beg and cry to the world that it was your fault. you want my opinion?
i'd say don't bother.
(hey, cheer up! smile and make someone else happy. don't ever let anyone dictate the amount of sunshine to get into your life.)
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2006-11-01 23:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by doe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU BECAUSE I KNOW I SURE WOULDNT CONTACT YOU IF THAT WAS THE CASE ... HES PLAYIN GAMES WITH YOU .. AND HE ALSO STILL PROLLY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU .. JUST CAUGHT HIS HEAD AFTER HE DONE WHAT HE DID
2006-11-01 23:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by MiZ_PuMpKiN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't answer your question I just find it stranget that I got a hint that you want him back.
2006-11-01 23:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. he's playing games. maybe he regrets breaking up but doesn't want to commit to dating you. he's immature. tell him to stop and then don't talk to him if he shows up
2006-11-01 23:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do u want him back? If not, why bother.
2006-11-01 23:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it only works if you allow it
2006-11-01 23:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋