Tell the whole story about how it started and how it went because I am doin sumthing about teacher student relationships.Please tell all.If you do you may get the best answer.
2006-11-01 22:25:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It all started when I was in 5th grade my math teacher was old and nasty. In the begining he would come up to me and other girls who were doing the class work and ask if we needed any help, at first the girls that needed help would say yes, like myself i had a tuff time with math. Then as time went by i would notice that he would ask us often if we needed help , and also i started to noticed that he was coming closer to my breast and sometimes rub his arm against my breast. I needed so much help in math i had a real tuff time with math and now i have this teacher who is touching me and i am afraid of speaking up. I was afraid of telling anyone because i thought they would think that i was lying. I was failing that class so i had to go for extra hours for help to understand math, and guess who the teacher was?? him.. I started to feel bad for myself like i was no good cuz he was doing this to me, i felt like i was nobody and noone would ever believe me. As the year went by I past with a D. And i never mentioned with any of my friends and family. Even dough some of my friends were going thru the same thing. 6th grade came and he got worst he started to rub his arms and even his private on my arm when he was explaining things to me. I never asked for help cuz i knew he was going to do that to me, but somehow he always found away to go next to me and check my work and correct it and rub himself. Things were really getting out of hand, i was seing my friends going thru the same thing so I ended up asking my friends who were going thru the same thing they all started to talk about what he did to them as well. We ended up telling one of our teachers which at the time she was the supervisor for all of my teachers. She couldnt believe what she was hearing not just from me but from other girls as well. That moment was so scary knowing that she is going to talkt to him, and my parents were going to find out about this .She ended up calling him and talking to him because the next day or so he never showed up in class and we had another teacher for math. I have never told my parents neither did the teacher about this story at all it is very hard for me to share this with u. Now i look back and think the things i went thru with that teacher and how bad of grades i used to have. I should of told my parents but i was embarrased and i didnt want to let my parents down. I know i made a mistake by not telling my parents about this. But noone knows how embarrasing this is and how painfull it is besides the girls that went thru this with me. I am a pregnant women now and i am going to beg my daugther to tell me everythign that goes on in school and out of school. I dont want my kid to go thru what i went thru at all. I ask parents that have children to pay attention to ur kids actions and feelings, grades, and talk about things with them u might make a difference in their lifes. They are most likely to come up to u and tell u what is happening. I dont want anyone to go thru what i went thru... thank you for reading my story and i hope it helps u in ur project
2006-11-02 07:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by sweetangel4400 2 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, my high school health teacher was a huge pervert... he would hit on all the girls, but more so the ones with well developed chests. He was real touchy feely. I was average in the bust so it wasn't so extrmeme for me, but some of my friends were practically molested by this guy at their desks.
He also would stand in the halls "monitoring" the students with another very flirty teacher and they'd be talking about all us girls as we'd walk by and make very inappropriate comments about our clothes and our bodies. It seemed weird, but I never really though about how wrong it was until I was older.
I often question what went on during his after-school detention halls. There were rumors about that, but nothing was ever confirmed to have happened.
There were also tons of rumors circulating around the school about him having left his first wife for a student and I have since found out that it was TRUE!!!! His wife now was one of his students and I actually know their daughter and son-in-law.... the ones who confirmed the rumors to me.
Crazy crazy sh*t!
2006-11-02 01:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by mutherwulf 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
When I was in senior high school (age 16-17, but looked WAY younger) my English Literature teacher seemed to be very attracted to me from his behaviour and the way he looked at me. I used to get teased about it a lot from other students.
Once he gave me "Lolita" to read, although it wasn't on the school reading list. Afterwards, he told me that he thought it was okay for adults to have sexual contact with teens and even preteens if it was consensual and both parties enjoyed it. I didn't seem too enthusiastic about this idea, and he said that one day I would change my mind on the issue. He also offered to lend me movies that were of a sexual nature, which I declined.
Sometimes I babysat for he and his wife, and once when he was taking me home he asked if I would be offended if he walked around his own house naked in front of me, because it felt more natural and comfortable for him. I said I'd prefer not.
However, although his behaviour was definitely inappropriate, he never actually touched me or propositioned me. He was actually a very good teacher and soon after I left school, he won an award for it.
2006-11-02 13:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
In high school I had a teacher who constantly flirted with me. He would give me detentions in his classroom during lunch. In my high school there was no detentions, only 8th hours where you stayed after school as punishment. We would get really close and touch me. He invited me to his house to help with school work several times, I never went. I was an A- student in his class so I didn't really need the help. He would always ask if I had a boyfriend and very personal questions. He also asked my friends about me. When I graduated he finally asked me out and said that it is legal now. He was married and I was NOT interested.
And another time- yeah this happened twice. I was a student intern at a vocational school in the office that I was also a student at. A new teacher that was hired who was 25 asked for my help all the time. I worked as an office assistant and he wanted help with his heavy equipment class. He was pretty cute and I helped him all the time. He took me out for lunch to "thank" me for his help a few times. He kissed me at lunch on one occasion. He said he knew it was wrong, but he could give me the life I dreamed of and he said it was ok since I wasn't a student of his. I went to his house several times, and he would pick me up from school. I was only 16 when it all started. Our boss questioned him about it once and he said he was my cousin. Our boss then thought that was so great and had us work together all the time. He would even come up and hug me in front of everyone at school (or work). That is when I realized this was soooo wrong. I was young, vulnerable and very intrigued, I look back now and can't believe it ever happened. I have 2 daughters now and boy do I worry about when high school comes. I hope they don't get sucked into anything like I did.
2006-11-01 23:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by katbeek 2 · 16⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 05:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by mesidor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i mean how old do you have to be to tell if someone is hitting on you or is just being nice? Arnt teachers suppose to be kind and understanding? I never really thought of wether my lady teachers were hitting on me? Good question!
2006-11-02 04:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by Bobby W 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i never had a teacher that flirted with me but i have been caught by a teacher visiting porn sites at school! lol. she had this look of shame in her face.
2006-11-02 03:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
kind of but i kind of like him so i dont care. But he has gone so yeah. we kind of lost in touch and nothing really happened and i am just 15!
2006-11-02 01:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by v_o_v_girl 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I was too dull and drab to warrent that level of attention
2006-11-02 02:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
No
but my dance teacher threaten to hit me before and she threw a chair at this other girl in my class.
2006-11-02 06:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 8⤋