My girlfriend is a nurse and has dealt with several male patients who have had a prolapse as a result of having regular anal sex. They will have to wear nappies for the rest of their lives.
Do you think this is mother nature saying that gay sex is wrong or is it a risk worth taking for a bit of bum fun?
Please note that I am merely asking a question and not stating my opinion.
2006-11-01 21:21:54 · 23 answers · asked by Shane T 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well done to all the dim wits who saw fit to give me the thumbs down. Like I said, I was not stating my opinion, merely asking a question. Next time I will ask something a little less challenging, like what is your favourite colour or song.
Knee jerk, do gooder, low IQ, lefties are bringing this country to it's knees. Well done to you all!!
2006-11-01 22:04:21 · update #1
Oh dear, am I going to have a prolapse then?
The human body was designed with procreation between the sexes and if it is used in the wrong way there can be consequences - like snapping a knife when you try to use it as a screwdriver
2006-11-04 23:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To Bubble, yes it does happen to females as well. porn stars and others.
To answer you, no it isn't, a prolapse can happen for many reasons, and many gay people go through life not having one.
Also women can get a prolapsed womb, whats nature saying to us there then. That Vaginal sex and giving birth are unnatural??
If it wasn't your opinion why do you care about the thumbs down. Most people on here haven't attacked you, they've just stated that your point was innacurate. Didn't you ask for their opinion. Your added statement points to the fact that it probably WAS your opinion. For your info I did not give you a thumbs down, i'm not gay, not a do-gooder, and do not have a low IQ. I am however a left hander and my favourite colour is Purple...
2006-11-02 05:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by Georgie's Girl 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Would you ask the same question of women who have vaginal prolapses after giving birth?
Or what about those women who lose bladder control?
Are the people who get cancer being punished for something?
Now what do you think?
I'm sorry to say it but the way you have worded your question and the fact that you have posted it here, in the GLBT section, indicates that this IS your opinion. I mean, how else would you come to that conclusion if you didn't have some pre-existing opinion on the matter?
Call me knee-jerk, left wing, tree hugger, hanging-is-too-good-for-me, whatever - I'm not in the same country as you so you can't blame me for bringing the country to its knees.
2006-11-02 05:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It takes rather a lot of anal sex to result in a prolapse. I suspect that the cases that your girlfriend has seen have been people that have taken part in some rather fetishistic practices that most gay men do not experience. Like you, Mother Nature is not sending any message about said practices. For my part, "bum fun" is not a risk as long as it does not involve unnecessary trauma.
2006-11-02 05:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by paul h 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Apart from the good points raised in the answers above, you have to consider that your girlfriend is seeing a tiny minority of the people that have anal sex, gay or otherwise. Whether you realised it or not, millions of people are having "a bit of bum fun" as you so eloquently put it, and they are not all beating a path to the hospital doors.
2006-11-02 21:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by satyricon_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex is neither an exclusively "gay" activity, nor is it engaged in by all gay or bisexual men. Therefore your question is faulty as it is based on the assumption that anal sex = gay sex, both inaccurate and untrue.
Additionally, several patients seems like a small number compared to the probable number of people who engage in anal sex overall.
2006-11-02 07:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by tysonian22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I gave you thumb up. I got it, it is not your opinion. It is an interesting question. I regret to hear this, I have many homosexual friends and did not know about such details. Wrong to have such sex? Then why men like anal sex with their women? Mother nature? I spoke to my friends, they do not perform homosexuality because it is modern to be 'different', but because they feel this way, man falls in love with a man, he feels he can perform sexual relationship only with man. So, mother Nature? Did you give up here as well?
2006-11-02 11:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Romi G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm well I suppose you could argue that all sex has a risk to it but basically if we're getting biological here, the **** really isn't made for gay sex is it. I wouldn't say it's mother natures way but just umm take it easy kind of thing.
2006-11-02 09:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first your assumption that all gay men have anal sex (we don't) shows your naivete. and secondly millions of straight people indulge in anal sex, so it's not a gay issue. as far as mother nature, homosexuality occurs in all species on the earth naturally. Mother Earth loves and protects all her children, even those bent on destroying her through greed and indifference.
2006-11-02 11:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women get prolapses too from sex and being pregnant. I'm sure that's not mother natures way of telling us to stop procreating
2006-11-02 07:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by valleylaydee85 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋