I am a student in a top technology institute. I am having a batch-met who is extremely irritating person (This is the view of not only me but most of the others' too). This person is very negative and sadistic kind of person. Even if sometimes i don't pick up his call and i didn't help him during examinations (which i could do), he's sticked to me. Beside this, he always criticise me and my actions. Plz suggest anything for this.
2006-11-01 20:30:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The negative people are very much motivated by your own negative feelings and mind it they are very sharp to detect these. And of course, all of us are - more or less - negative.
The problem with the negative people is that they spread the 'evil' and their negativismk is contangious.
The best way to get rid of him is to just keep your positive side spruced up and to let him be offended by your positive thinking; optimism and generally good humour. He would perhaps be scared of this and prefer to run away.
As a last resort, you could just tell him to stay away from you.
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2016-12-16 17:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think the best thing to do is bring a friend or two who felt the same way as you are and tell him the truth about how you and others felt about his attitude.
I also face this problem before with my new friend at a camp. She is so annoying that I couldn't stand her. So I keep ignoring her. But now we no longer in touch but sometimes I keep thinking that maybe it will be different now if I face her at that time.
Well you gotta do what you gotta do. Wish you luck!
2006-11-01 20:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by ღSuzyneta Izziyaniღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 20:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by prasanna kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away.since best times of a day when your system of the body is tuned to learn you are with a sadistic person.this will slowly catch up with you.negative thinking and sadism is worst enemy during hard working times.just disconnect for your goodness.
suppose if u want to help him the best way is call their parents if u know them well and explain them with your other Friends with out hurting their feelings and guide them to agood psychiatrist.just it is a decease can be cured if he cooprates.best of luck
2006-11-01 20:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by krishman1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you tried talking to him? maybe try to tell him oh-so-gently that he is mean?
Of course if he is a sadisctic person, then it is best if you STAY-AWAY from that person. He might distract you from your studies which is not a good thing to do. Or tell on him to a reliable adult who can help him cope up wiht his sadistic tendencies
2006-11-01 20:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just walk out of his life talk to him calmly & tell him his faulty behaviour & it's outcoming in a long term relations, advise him to go to a therapist a psychologist etc & get cured ,he may feel offended a bit but tell him "no one in this world helps they just walk out of such situations which even you could have done,that would be like a good human being & a friend in real sense.
2006-11-01 21:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by sultan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl do talk to him as usual.Otherwise things might go wrong.Simultaneously,give the indication that you are not interested in him by your reaction as per the situations arises.
2006-11-01 21:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by thama v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask him why he acts like that? he may not even realize that he is doing it. some people realize they are mean and negitive but they can't stop it from comming out.
he may just be the type of person that picks at people until they stand up for themselves. so stand up!
2006-11-01 20:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he is negative and extremely critical. give him a chance to change. then, if he doesn't, ignore him and don't pay attention to him. unless you need to communicate because of school work, like group work or something, don't pay attention to him.
2006-11-01 20:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋