am holdin in a dreams i know that won't come true,and making a hopes that is never possible they become true like sometimes i hope that one day i live in the moon,i spend many hours drawing how the house gonna be,and thinkin how nice is life gonna be with no ppl around me,and i dream that a girl would live her husband for me although she is happy with him,and she doesnot even love me but i would just keep dreamin how to make her happy when am with her,and if i pass from a nice place i would be like oh one day i will bring her to this place..
dont wonder alot about my nick name and about bein in love with a girl that's coz am lesbian
2006-11-01 20:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by stang girl 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
sounds like you are living in a fantasy world because you have a hard time accepting the real world or maybe not enough confidence in yourself..... i am not quite sure what to say... maybe you will grow out of it (i am guessing you are in your mid teens?) take up a hobby (aside from day dreaming) join a club take aclass ... do something to immerse yourself in real life and give you confidence... if all else fails try counceling maybe you can figure out why you want to only live in your dreams?
2006-11-01 20:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to be judgmental of you i am just letting you know that someone cares. I think that possibly you need salvation through Jesus Christ. I can probably understand you more then anyone else right now because i went through a lot of the same thang that you are talking about and what very intense pain to feel this way, i am over her now but my heart still lingers every once in a while and i cry out with passion for love and fulfillment and if it was not for certain spiritual truisms that i came to realize then i would be very lost.Here is some of what has healped me,
have been using some deep meditation Cd's that have helped me a lot thy cause a bunch of issues to surface though, i think it is so that you are faced with it and you can overcome the issue, the instructions for the program say to use the Cd's every day but i think that it is only a good idea to do this for the first six weeks of the program and then to use them at your own pace of maybe two or three times a week at least for me anyway, ALSO DON'T TURN THE VOLUME UP VERY LOUD AT ALL WHEN LISTENING TO THE CD'S (when listening to these Cd's you have to use a portable CD player with headphones) the company is called center-point (click on link)http://www.centerpointe.com
I now that it my be difficult for you to do but you need to let go of this person and the lesbian lifestyle that you live, think about how lost you feel and how much that it has hurt you already. here are some bible verses for you to read if you want (Romans 3:23) (Titus 3:5) (Ephesians 2 :8-9) (Romans 5:8) (1 John 1:7) (Acts16:31) (John 14:6)
the bible says god has loved you with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 5:8) find church read bible, go to http://www.bellevue.org and you can watch live sermons HOPE I HELPED
2006-11-01 21:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the indications you describe, are in part categorised as Bipolar (the previous term became "manic depressive") and in part "schitzophrenia". the former is usually some type of severe temper swings- from close to-suicidal melancholy (like once you cry in a corner for days). on the "ups" you have a tendency to be very edgy, now and lower back feeling rather energetic or satisfied, without reason. i did no longer observe the "up" area on your descriptions nonetheless. Schitzophrenia (actually "chop up head") is approximately dissimilar personalities. now and lower back a number of them are responsive to the others, now and lower back no longer. they can be particularly complicated. i'm no longer a psychological wellness professional, however the impact i'm getting is that "Bipolar" has a tendency to be in maximum cases an inherited trait, and Schitzophrenia has a tendency to be a reaction to a pair variety of very aggravating adventure, now and lower back having been lower back and lower back experienced over an prolonged quantity of time. There are different circumstances of "blackouts" (the place a individual loses extensive unsleeping memory for hours or days at a time) then will become able to long-term memory yet does not remember the fast term events. now and lower back alcoholic binge eating can produce this, yet you probably did no longer point out a topic with alcohol or different factors. rather get some professional help, inclusive of a minimum of two self reliant comments approximately diagnosis. scientific look after the two one, will require counseling, and in all probability drugs besides.
2016-10-03 04:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to be imaginative and live in a dream once in a way. And there is absolutely nothing wrong in being a lesbian coz thats who you are. so don't worry I don't think you have a mental problem. But if you are still not convinced you might as well pay visit to a psychiatrist to clear mind off your doubts
2006-11-01 20:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jessiefer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with wanting someone to love and a nice home to share with them.
The moon: a hard place to get to: maybe you don't feel your dreams are achievable.
Woman leaves man for you: Maybe you feel it's going to be hard to find a lesbian partner.
Absence of people: You are not comfortable around them maybe.
Overall I think the dream is about what you want and feeling it's going to be hard/impossible to get it.
Have faith in yourself and don't give up on love. Love is a power.
2006-11-01 20:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by mince42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it a mental problem at all. I think its just wishful thinking, and for starters you KNOW that you are doing it. I don't get the bit about the moon cos if you could live there, you wouldn't be alone, heaps of ppl would live there too. Maybe this 'wishful thinking' is a sign that you are doing too much daydreaming, not acting? I dunno what you could do about any of that. And these things just seem to mean that you are really over mean neighbours and annoying people, and that you like this girl more than she likes you. thats life i'm sorry.
but, i wouldn't call it a mental problem. :D
2006-11-01 20:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by C-bear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not mental its what u desire so much u created it into a dream and visions that it is only possible if it will stop being a dream and live with it ,,,,what u have to do is stop thinking of all these things and try instead to be with somone that will not make u dream and live with it day by day whoever that person is not just that girl u mentiond,,,
2006-11-01 20:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by BrAvEy^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're just very imaginative, and dreams are your minds place to express things you don't feel comfortable with in real life.
Or, perhaps you're crazy.
Did you hear that? It said "smoke another cigarette..." Okay, Strange Voice, I will obey.
What? No! I like her! She's nice! The wood chipper? No!
2006-11-01 20:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by -=eXiLe=- 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No not at all !!! Dream on Girl ! but me i love men....
2006-11-01 20:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no the bad dreams are your insecurities and the good are exagerated versions of your aspirations
2006-11-01 20:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋