I am transgendered person. ever since i was in primary, Secondary school people mock me that I look like a woman, I changed my organs and appearence now I look just like a woman. but know I am blemming myselve for doing it. I want to go back to me.
2006-11-01 19:52:05 · 17 answers · asked by Nina 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I feel sorry for you. It is a difficult situation and I think only a doctor would be able to help you on this. God is supposed to be there for us but sometimes I wonder whether he is. It seems to me that God makes many mistakes and is not as infallible as we are supposed to think. I feel your hurt and your rejection. It is not your fault. Now that you have done this just go ahead and be yourself. Damn the people that mock you and turn round and say to them "There but for the Grace of God go I" !! There are many unfeeling people in this world and kids are the worst of all.
2006-11-01 19:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. Are you seeing a therapist? Someone with experience in this area can help you sort out your feelings. You really have to ask yourself-why did you change your sex? Was it for yourself? Was it something you really wanted? If not, maybe you felt like it was the right thing to do, maybe you felt pressure from someone in your life, either way, only you know. Try to get into a therapist soon and really do some soul searching. If you're truly not happy then there is no reason why you shouldn't go back to a male. But you may just be having a hard time adjusting and just need some time to feel like yourself again. Hang in there!
2006-11-01 20:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid it will be a bit awkward to have a reversal I'm afraid. Why don't you try speaking to someone about this so you can move on from this. Perhaps this may be just a realisation check of what you've gone through. I'm sure it's not easy knowing that the procedure can't be reversed that easy, although It can be done you may end up feeling the same way again.
2006-11-02 02:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its a myth that there are 2 genders. I would suggest you find a forum of other people similar to you and have a nice chat there. I would also suggest you should do what you feel is right.
as a victim of predigest myself I know how awful it can be but some good advice to follow would be to do what makes you happy and live up to your own expectations. People can be extremely cruel, especially younger ones. I hope you will be ok. Its up to you but if you ever need to chat my MSN messenger name is Bigwill64@yahoo.com.
I truly hope you are ok.
2006-11-01 20:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by wartorious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you had to have spent at LEAST a year living your life, every aspect of it, as the "other" gender. Virtually every doctor who performs sex change operations requires any candidate for surgery to spend AT LEAST that much time on the "other side" before the change is finalized, so to speak. So... not to be rude, but I doubt very much that this is a geniune question as most people would've figured out during the probationary year that they don't really want to completely BE the other sex.
2006-11-01 20:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tough tatties, your crown jewels are in a jar, nowt you can do about them now....
You need some really in-depth counselling, asking questions in forums like this won't really help, you need a specialist...
However, you seem to be relating 'you' to the organs, they may have nothing to do with it... How you feel mentally is the problem you need to fix..... Seriously, go and speak to someone who specialises in this type of thing.......
2006-11-01 20:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by PvteFrazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After transitioning, transsexual people sometimes regret their transition, or even choose to detransition to their original sex. Regret is more common among self-identified autogynephiles, transsexual people with co-existing psychiatric problems.
Schedule a session with a psychologist to see underlying reasons for regret.
2006-11-01 19:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound cruel - but do you know who the real 'you' is?
Did you have counselling? Perhaps you need to talk to someone.
Trite I know but it's the only advice I can give.
2006-11-01 19:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All my sympathy, Camilia.
Now that you are trans-gendered, you are you.
You are now a woman.
So, stop worrying about what anybody else says and get on with your life.
Cheers.
2006-11-01 19:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did you keep the left over bits on ice?
2006-11-01 19:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by sid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋