Out there in a "serious" relationship who actively pleasure themselves to the thought of someone else? I'm not being perverted.I don't want details. I do and I want to hope someone else does too. If I've violated boundaries, I'm truly sorry...I just feel lost.
2006-11-01 19:10:19 · 9 answers · asked by tequillajenny 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No, you're not perverted, but doing so may cause you problems further up the line in relationships. Fantasy occurs in all of us... but we have to truly rein it in at times. Fantasy can lead to more serious thought . Thought to temptation. Temptation to action. i pray you can keep that in mind and never hurt you or your partner.
Don't feel lost... may you be empowered and in control. God bless.
2006-11-01 19:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by R S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely NOT the only one.
Two ex-boyfriends, Vin Diesel, Tupac Shakur, Laurence Fishburne, Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman, Kate Beckinsale in Van Helsing, the list goes on.
I'm weird.
2006-11-01 19:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a totally normal and healthy part of any long term relationship. The mind needs new fodder but the emotions do better with one true person. So we improvise and are both better for it, as long as the partner swapping stays in fantasy land!!!
2006-11-01 19:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is perfectly normal behavior that most people indulge in. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing. You should never feel guilty or "lost" for using your imagination. You're not hurting anyone.
2006-11-01 19:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah. That's how pornography works. My relationship is long-distance right now, so I can't get any active sex. It's hard to focus on her all the time when I get release.
2006-11-01 19:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unual about that. Ask your partner, he's probably doing the same.
2006-11-01 19:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it. Enjoy!
2006-11-01 20:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not the only one, i dont do it, but i know of friends that do
2006-11-01 19:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Robins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that that's very normal.
2006-11-01 19:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋