I've done everything for him;I cleaned the house everyday,cooked,
supported him in everything he did,made special dinners,I always looked the best,and I still had a hob of my own just so he could come to me and say :Sweety...I'm not ready for a serious relationship...
Well if that's what you men want then great.How many times have I heard men crying:Why is there not a single good woman to find?
Oh I could give you a very good answer,misters!
You've got it all and then just walk away.
That's it,I don't want to be with men since they don't even care.
I rest my case,women do you agree with me?
2006-11-01 18:55:06 · 18 answers · asked by Madelain M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i wish i could've copy pasted an answer i gave yesterday to someone else about a similar question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av_b0Da_.R0ILWNlbx2dWRrsy6IX?qid=20061101030450AARsLyV
look for my answer, off course the person asking decided to choose the answer off the guy who encourage and humored her instead of giving her real support, you know why? because some people can't help but to be selfish!
please do read my answer and get back to me, also i am so sorry about your problems you deserve better!!!! you do.
2006-11-01 19:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by alephontime 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear, just slow down. You have not found the right fella. You cannot succeed without failure. It is our mistakes that teach us. Next time don't move in with the fella and take a different approach. There are really good guys in this world, just don't ruin it for yourself by shutting out all guys because of a few immature boys. Quit looking in the same places you found the last boy.
Things always improve and when they don't, remember to ask God for his leadership and blessings. You will be amazed what comes your way!
2006-11-01 19:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you but I'm gonna be brutally honest here.
Once he start to be nice to you, you will leave him. Guaranteed.
I'm a nice guy. I don't act like one because I know once I'm nice to a girl, she'll leave me. This happened to me on three occasions on which two I loved dearly. After alot of heartache and misery I say no more. Now I act like a jerk with my new relationships all the time and guess what? EACH ONE OF THEM does everything I say.
Women dont want nice guys, they think they do but they dont. They want someone who challenge their minds.
As you are writing this question you are still thinking about him. If you want out, you would already done so.
Do I want to be nice? Yes... deep down very very much so! But reality kept me from doing it. I've seen this happen to my buddies too.
2006-11-01 19:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Victorious Secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew. Puh, there are some ok ones out there, aparently... I think that men, are totally incapable, of putting themselves in other people's shoes. That's why we're constantly upset & dissapointed. Then they just like the chase, then as soon as they don't have you they want you back again. Im sorry to hear about that guy being so cruel. If only we could use and abuse like they do.
2006-11-01 19:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that, there are a few of us good ones.
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-11-01 19:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heya,-I've been in the same bucket,Luv.
But one man does not reflect on how ALL men are.
I do know of several good men.
Then also,-bad ones.
Every individual is different.(That guy you were with was scum.But there are good,caring,sexy hunks with a descent mind,brain,-as well as a sense of humor to keep you laughing for the rest of your days!)
Learn and let go.
Live and Learn more.
Learn to love again!!
XOXO.
2006-11-01 19:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from my experience i can say i was the "bad guy"........well men indeed want all but u shouldn't give everything from the first time on a silver plate u should gave and take and vice verse....what I've learn is that in a relations u should spear something just for yourself, otherwise u'll be trap in his or her life ............so my advice is to take it easy next time.......and i think that man are scared when they find a good woman( they think they can find better or they don;t deserve them and just run away)......so next time start acting a little bit like a man also........
2006-11-01 19:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by black_cat_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult men because of the fact they lie and cheat extra frequently. they're dis-ingenuousness approximately their intentions and compliments (no being effective to someones face and speaking smack isn't well mannered or comfortable). it would be female because of the fact adult men do this style of competent activity of no longer exhibiting thoughts or saying something while we injury them. adult men are plenty extra well-off with regard to the main unearthly issues. adult men can do an identical issues. while somebody asks for an uncomplicated score that's what they're going to get. people who do no longer cheat or devote crimes are good, female do no longer do those issues the two is sweet. Being social and attention-grabbing and attention-grabbing make somebody eye-catching.
2016-11-26 23:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y ou sound like you're already married. I can say the same about women too. Both people can get hurt, some in other ways than others
2006-11-01 20:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by John B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that. You just had a horrible experience, but don't let it blind you to the fact that there are many good, kind men out there
2006-11-01 18:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋