ive been fem 4 quite awhile so dress;n fen isn;t a prob but i got offerd a job where i can always dress fem ? should i ? i;m well known here which could be a prob> HELP
2006-11-01 17:27:25 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Steve, your gay...if people don't know by now who cares...take the job!!!
2006-11-01 19:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by joy ride 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You could look at it as a trial period. It's one thing to dress for fun, but every day can be trying for some. Personally, i'd stay away from it, unless I was going all the way (which I did). I wish I had that opportunity when I was younger. Even here in San Francisco, 75 % of the transsexuals are unemployed.
2006-11-01 18:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by kendra bryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boss and make clear what your situation is. If he/she has no problem with it, go ahead! If it may interfere with your work, then you can appeal or you can dress as you wish and take the punishment doled onto you.
Just remember, whatever you choose, that the workplace is for looking professional. Whether the clothing be 'feminine' or 'masculine', it should be low-key, smart, and practical.
Good luck!
2006-11-01 17:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A question...does you potential employer know that you are not female? If you're well known, does that mean that people know that you dress fem?
2006-11-01 17:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by juanitahatfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
be your self
if you wish to do then do it
you don't get many chance to do that
but look at the whole picture
what is the rest of the job like
good luck
2006-11-01 17:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it
2006-11-02 00:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've been dressing the part, and acting the part, and you've done it successfully, then I wouldn't worry
HOWEVER, how are you going to hide your adams apple? And when this information gets out (and it will, someday) how are you going to deal with it then?
2006-11-01 19:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable, then you should. It sounds like a great chance to be yourself in a more daily and public way.
2006-11-01 20:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, if its what you want. This chance may not come round again for a while so go for it. Best of luck!
2006-11-01 18:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by cartoonhero55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want just be comfortable with who you are.
When others see you are comfortable then no harm no foul.
2006-11-01 17:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by nalaredneb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋