I would like to hear more from GIRLS. Also, just don't say, "YES" or "NO" to the above question. Give reasons with your answer, preferably, with lots of examples.
Thanks.
2006-11-01 17:01:30 · 10 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No. Girls are capable of having male friends without expecting to fall in love in the future. At first a girl might want to be friends with a male to explore the possibility of a future relationship, but you can tell right away her intentions. If she's overly friendly (flirtatious) then she's attracted to you. But if she starts to mention other guys and starts to treat you like "one of the girls" then you hit the friendship wall.
Guys, on the other hand, will only have friends that are girls with the hope that "someday" they will be in the right place at the right time (when the girl is vulnerable and falls right into his arms).
There are exceptions to the rule, but for the most part the above is true.
Maybe you can give us more details so that we can better answer this question. Is there a certain way a friend of yours is acting?
2006-11-01 17:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by s2bx04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. They become "good" friends to other guys because the partner they are with right now or the last one they had just been with doesn't have "all" the qualities she desires. Something is missing and that variable is usually the comfortability factor. Most girls WANT to be with the "bad boy" image---it lights their fire down below and makes their blood boil and their passion become the xtc that they always crave under the sheets. But, one problem. "They" can't control them. And women by nature of the motherhood factor, always want control. So, they revert to the "nice" guy friend to ease their emotional dillema and comfort their souls. There no pressure to deal with and by nature and usually choose this partner because it is what their parents would agree with as the perfect person to marry and start a family with, yadda yadda. Problem is, even if you are "lucky" enough to get a sympathy roll in the hay...you will never have what it takes to satisfy her carnal needs. You will only fill the perverbial 2 out of 3 syndrome. Good Husband, Great Father but, not what lights her genetic passion. Hope this helps and if you're in this situation just understand to accept it for what it really is and understand that there are always different views of love when it comes to women. They are all ultimately "wired" different then men. Always have been and always will be---so, just enjoy the companionship or the "ride" or both, while it lasts.
Hope this perspective helps.
Sincerely, BS from Canada
2006-11-01 17:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by bs49ers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, I am good friends with a number of guys since high school (I'm WAY past high school) Yes I have dated most of the guys I'm friends with but can't say that I ever fell in love with anyone of them except for one. I don't have any ulterior motives when starting out as friends other than simply friendship. If it becomes more then it is meant to be more, not because I WANT it to be more from the beginning.
2006-11-01 17:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm I think I sorta did. I know I was inlove before and when we did it but after the relationship fell apart. I knew we couldnt be together but we kept coming back to eachother and its been a mess. I dream about her sometimes and have these day dreams in class...its not even lust anymore I just miss her for what she was....Guys deff fall in love with their first.
2016-05-23 11:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if a girl makes good friends with a guy, its just for the friendship. I'd say only about 10% of them are in it for a relationship. If a guy goes friendly with a girl however, the %'s are reversed.
2006-11-01 17:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Claude 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. I'm a girl that has always appreciated guy friends. It's refreshing for me to just hang out with the guys. they're more laid back, they don't get pms, and I tend to enjoy more "guy" humor. Sometimes there's been an attraction, but a lot of times, its just been guys that I've enjoyed company with and nothing more. I can't vouch that the guys feels the same way, but from a female perspective not everything has to do with love.
2006-11-01 17:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Slappy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is very situational. Some people will just want a friend whereas others maybe looking for a hook up.
2006-11-01 17:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, they dont some girls (like me) like to hang around boys because there more funner to hang out with.
2006-11-01 17:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by michellemichellemichellemd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure!!why else would they befriend with you.i mean the same thing goes with you guys.you guys befriend wit gal juz so fall in love and have sex right?
2006-11-01 17:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeap
2006-11-01 17:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋