I just met this guy couple of months ago, and he is driving me crazy. He is not really a relative,but he think he is( my mom's cousin's new wife's brother) He adores my daugter ( I am a single mom)and helps me around the house, and has beautiful eyes and smiles. He says that he will be all over me if he is not related to me( but I am really not). I just wish if I can't stop think about him, but just when I try to do that he comes around again. I really don't know what to do. any suggestion?
2006-11-01 16:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by runninpuppy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No, your mom's cousin's new wife's brother is not related to you! His excuse is very lame and I find his contradictory behaviour odd. Obviously he likes you, but something is holding him back. Maybe, just maybe, he's waiting for you to point out that you're not actually related, and to tell him how interested you are in him. Well good luck...
2006-11-01 17:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He helps around the house ? Do nothing different ! Let him keep coming around as much as possible - good help is so hard to find ! Plus you get eye candy ! So you think about him, that's not a bad thing. My guess is he knows you are not actually related, but he may have a girlfriend already. so,,,,,,
Just chill out and enjoy the scenery . . .
2006-11-02 01:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's playing with you for awhile before he reels you in and scores. The chase can be more rewarding if you have patience to see what he is really all about besides the sex.Sometimes the anticipation is worth more than the truth. See if he's really a romantic instead of some Don Juan.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don_Juan
2006-11-02 01:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..
1st option be frank with him, explain your take on the "relative" thing and hope a positive response.
Otherwise, you can reduce the amount of time you spend thinking of him by keeping yourself busy with other activities like house chores, exercise, reading, etc. This works for me when i need to.
2006-11-02 00:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by aLTered_eGo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you make a move and do something about it? It's better to love without being loved than to love without never knowing. What's the worst thing that can happen?
Hmmm, no more cleaned dishes...
Go for it! Life can only be lived once.
2006-11-02 01:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by AmAr A ciegAs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋