how to change your attitude?

Answer 1

Attitude is, how you see things.

A-Arrogant. dont be arrogant.have pleasing manners.be humble and polite.have the qualities to forgive others.

T-Timid.dont be timid. be brave to circumstanes and situations.that will make you strong.you might fail, but that dosent make you a failure.learn lessons from every failure.

I-interest.expand your mind. develope varied interest in life.learn to think positive,be positive and do positive.dont be a bore.listen more speak less.

U-understand.understand and know yourself. know your strengths.project them more. know your weakness. improve upon them. rather try to get rid of them.

D-devote-be devoted to something or other. at work be devoted to your work, be efficient, be productive.at home be devoted to your parents, brothers and sister.dont ever do anything to hamper relationship, both at work and at home.

E-End. see the end in view. see the big picture in life.dont get bothered by details.set goals. focus on the goals.

Answer 2

Start thinking positively...your attitude will change automatically!! All the Best :)

Answer 3

start with yourself. How do you want others to relate to you and to treat you? That will set the standard, for what you sow is what you reap. Don't wait for others to change. Start by doing it yourself. do not announce it to the world that you're changing. Just do it and wait, for it is a process. Eventually others will notice it and their attitude towards you will also change! I can vouch for this.

Answer 4

One don;t need to change his attitude everytime when finds himself in trouble,The right way is to do ur basics right and stick to ur rules.Be very near to ur originality and don;t loose ur confidence,and one thing more don't led others to jump on ur heads. meditation and pranayams will help u a lot.

Answer 5

Before doing something think what u doing, Before speaking something to someone think if someone had done with u the same thing than how would u think.
it seems to be stupidly sound but its works. try to do this one time in a day and u will progress.

Answer 6

My wife and I have endured complaints about 'our attitudes' withotu any specific explanation at work for years. I am too soft, too conservative, too unforgiving, too family-oriented, not fun enough, not serious enough, too assertive, too formal, too rude, too this, too that. Ask for an example, an opinion or a description and you get nothing. No explanations or descriptions. Never is there a specific answer to my question.

I figure nobody keeps a job, gets raises, bonuses and promotions to supervisor at Subway, management at a seafood restaurant years ago, appointment of head waiter and dining room supervisor, head of housekeeping on the floor, etc. if they don't deserve it. Not that we are bragging but the hospitality industry is full of shitty managers, mostly male, who have ideas about women fifty years back and a lousy, dollar-driven style of management.

I cannot get into all the times there were problems:

No overtime on paycheques;
Late paycheques;
Unlawful withholding of pay;
Illegal increases in rent in staff accom;
Requirements to clean up someone's mess;
No schedule posted night before new week of shifts begins again;
Verbal abuse;
assault against myself excused;
harassment by others against my wife excused;
orders to work on days off;
no say in schedule;
withholding of vacation pay;
no unions or contracts;
Mr. Hire and Fire types;
high staff turnovers;
nepotism;
sexism;
racism;
milking business for money;
illegal business practices;
lack of sanitation and proper food care procedure;
illegal bankruptcy claim not based on actual economic performance of the ski resort;
ripped-off bonuses;
theft excused and rampant in workplace;
pornography displayed;
people showing up late constantly, high, in pyjamas, on drugs and not showing up for work and keeping their jobs while we had to pick up the slack;
laziness;
lack of experience and no natural ability or adequate training to make up for this.
etc.

Answer 7

change how you think, how you see the world. it takes time, patience and a lot of courage. it does make you a stronger person if you do it for the right reasons.

Answer 8

Always be an optimists. Look for the bright side of events/things.

Answer 9

Think before you speak. Put yourself in the other person's shoes. Treat others as you would want to be treated.

Answer 10

determination to change urself,open mindedness to accept criticism and most of all making room for urself to BE URSELF.......seek help frm ur frnds and family because they can help u anyday better
Now go agead reinvent urself