What if your friend was dating this guy who doesn't have running water but lives in this $200,000 house. What would you tell her? And he told her, he don't like to use CONDOMS but has two babies by two different women... And maybe one on the way, with another woman... Tell me, what do I say? Cause this here is crazy has hell....... Thank you in advance,
2006-11-01 15:53:20 · 8 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like your friend needs to make up her own mind about things. I would recommend that you just be her friend and be there for her when she needs you. Support her the best you can and let her live her own life. As far as the guy having all these babies, maybe reminding your friend that she has several issues she needs to be aware of, pregnancy, aids, herpes, etc... would be a great way to start being supportive.
2006-11-01 16:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Julie W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really ask your friend if she'd want to be with some one who is this irresponsible. I'm not saying that it was stupid of him to possibly father three kids with different women. He could have dated them for all we know. But in irresponsible that if he's going to sleep around and possibly contract a disease. You should also ask your friend how responsible she feels by even dating this guy.
2006-11-02 00:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does this guy ever shower, I would be telling your friend to get right away from this guy,sounds like a bit of a creep especially if he already has two children and possibly one on the way,has no respect for your friend or the other women. sounds like he is using her,tell her the truth.
2006-11-02 00:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by nicole s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first I'd suggest she find out who's house it is! Then if it's his house, I'd suggest she find the 2 women he has babies by and make sure he pays them child support . . . and for the one on the way. Then I'd suggest he pay his water bill and flush the commodes. . . if it's his house. Then I'd suggest she dump him. If she doesn't, SHE'S crazy as hell!
2006-11-02 00:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by worldinspector 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your breath, honey. If she wants to be with this guy, she'll listen to no one. If she's smart, she'll figure it out before it's too late. She'll then look back and realize how valuable her true friends are. Trust me, I was her once.
2006-11-01 23:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by musicnerd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she should already know all of that if she is dating him. continue to talk to her about it....however....experience is the best lesson. i hope she doesn't become "baby momma" number 4 though...or even worse, get a disease that a needle wont cure.
2006-11-02 00:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your opinion about this guy but if thats really what she want to do then you will be there for her and you just don't want to see her get hurt or be the fourth girl having this lame a55'5 kid
2006-11-02 00:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so we know about him...what's wrong with her? If she doesn't know this, tell her if you think it will change anything. Ask her "what if" questions.
2006-11-01 23:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋