is born or should i just gone and do it so my baby will not be born out of wedlock
2006-11-01 15:48:07 · 15 answers · asked by MISS HEWITT 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
oh my..don't ever do that dear!the best thing to do is get marry before the baby is born,but if ever your man don't agree,try to keep the baby no matter what happen..don't follow other peoples footstep that you might regret later on!
2006-11-01 15:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Samzen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should do whatever you feel is right. If it is important to you that the baby is not born out of wedlock, then get married. I wouldn't feel pressured about anything. You can't please everyone and you shouldn't try. Your wedding day is YOUR day and it should be that way. Stress is not a good thing for the baby, so the less you have the better it will be for both you and the baby!
2006-11-01 15:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by KJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its completely up to you and you're partner - do what feels right for you too! I am also 17wks pregnant and my fiance and i have decided to wait until after baby is born before we get married. I don't want to marry him just because i am now pregnant - and the more i think about it the more i like the idea of waiting until baby can walk so baby can be part of the ceremony in some capacity too! I don't know if my fiance is happy with me entertaining this notion! lol - he wants to do it sooner rather than later, but he is letting me decide whats right for me which is really nice!
Congrats on baby ... and follow your heart in regards to the wedding!
2006-11-01 16:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my parents waited until after i was born to get married, so in the back of my mind i wonder if i was the reason they got married. We can't answer the question for you. But ask yourself these simple questions and you'll know what to do. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with this man? Do you love him with all your heart? Is he going to be a good father figure for your child? If the answer to these questions is yes then you should marry him. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-01 16:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally wait for a little while after the baby is born.. Having a baby changes EVERYTHING.. Things are going to get a lot better or well yeah the other side of that..
2006-11-01 16:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on u sweety!
my fiance and i decided to hold off when i fell pregnant i am due in 2 weeks and we are going to start planning next year.
you can never tell how you rpregnancy is going to be EG: you could have mrning sickness on the day and feel horrible, or you could have trouble actually choosing the right size dress etc.
it's totally up to u and your beliefs, i think its great to wait until marriage but either way u are going to be married ( i will be eventually)
so its totally up to you!
also my parents rushed there wedding when my mum was 7 months preg with me, and they ended up getting a divorce, now im NOT saying its going to happen to u because u already want to get married..
but both my mum and dad believe if they never had childeren they would not have married each other!!!!
but they still love me no matter what
2006-11-01 16:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on u and your believes. It doesn't take anything but a marriage license to make you married. Or are you talking about a wedding? Anyway, It is still up to you, if you are just getting married because you are pg than I would say wait. Because in the words of Dr. Phil "It is better to HAVE a broken family, then LIVE IN a broken family." (or something like that)
2006-11-01 15:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you thought of this problem about 17 weeks too late.
At this point, I'm not sure I would rush into marriage. Marriage should be a lifelong commitment, not just a quick ceremony to give a child a name. You don't say what the father wants to do. If he feels strongly that he loves you, no matter if you are pregnant or not, and wants to marry you, then you might consider it.
2006-11-01 15:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by ewema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Is everybody know about your pregnancy or either you and your bf only knows. First of all how you are ready for this and how you would assume after this he will definately marry with you? I don't understand on what grounds you have taken this step? But in this condition only there is one way if he is ready right now then you should marry with him. It is good for your and your future also. Otherwise everybody abuses you & your child in the very coming time. I hope you will marry at the soonest.
2006-11-01 16:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by inder r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited untill a week after my baby was born. I felt like I was making a point to myself... maybe like I wasn't getting married just because I was pregnant. It didn't really make much difference. Just to me.
2006-11-01 15:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋