Ok I've changed from last year, my freshmen year is so nice! Im prettier, nicer, and fun to hang out with, but I feel left out sometimes cuz my friend had a party halloween night, and she didn't invite me, should I just blow it off, or should I just do the same to her on my b-day?
2006-11-01 15:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Halloween
Blow it off, and don't do it back to her. In fact, make sure she knows she's invited.
This happened to me and a few friends of mine when we heard about an "Invitation Only" bash held by some other friends. We were disappointed that we never got an invitation, but later, we got a call from them asking if we were on the way or what. We were dumbfounded.
Apparently, it was expected that we would just show up whether invited formally or not. We thought it would be disrespectful to crash.
So it is quite possible that your friend didn't leave you out intentionally. Maybe she thought if you could make it, you would. Ask her about it. Maybe she's feeling a little rejected because you showed no interest in her party.
Either way, it would be wise to invite her to your parties, because you come off looking much cooler, fun and easy to get along with. Continue to be her friend and don't make enemies because who needs those anyway?
2006-11-01 16:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just ask her how it went and say that you hope it was fun, and after she comments just throw in that you wish you could have come and that you felt left out not being there with them.
If she doesn't care, she might not be worth keeping. Of course, it's also possible that you missed your invite or she got the impression that you already had plans. Either way, asking about it should help one way or the other.
2006-11-01 16:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a cow!! Is she really your friend? Flag her all together - you don't want to hang out with this chick!!!
School time is so hard cos you're forced to hang out with people that aren't necessarily your style cos they're the people that happened to land in your class... you're going to switch friends a thousand times, keep some, lose some and probably strongly dislike some too...
If girls do mean things like purposefully not invite you to their party - they have issues. They're the kind of people that will grow up and have difficulty cos their bad attitude won't get them anywhere.
Do yourself a favour and don't let this get to you, don't blow it off for her sake, blow it off cos you don't care.. Don't invite her.
2006-11-01 15:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by the voice of reason 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how close you guys r? if just a normal friend, she doesn't have the responsibility. there's no need of retaliation in this matter, if you still consider keeping her as a friend, just invite her to your bd regardless what happened last night.
2006-11-01 15:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by ShaLahLah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like it was no big deal to your friend. Make it sound like you had better things to do like wash your hair. Don't give her any idea that your feelings were hurt.
When Yo have your party don't invite her...simple as that.
2006-11-01 15:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her why she didn't invite you...
2006-11-01 15:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
idk
2006-11-01 16:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by NoBody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋