2006-11-01 15:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by csm 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I had a crush in high school and wanted her to be my girlfriend but she didn't want to coz her friends didn't agree with it. So I asked another crush and she eventually said yes. After a few weeks, my first crush decided she wanted to but then I had to break it off with my girlfriend and so I did. Then I finally was in love with my first crush who was already my girlfriend that time, and it was just awesome! However, things got complicated when her friends found out and I think I got jealous or something. So we broke it off. I went back to my ex-g/f (my 2nd crush) and she still accepted me with open arms and eventually I fell for her too eventhough I still had feelings for my first crush.
During this time of having 2 crushes and/or girlfriends, I really did love them both. I think if you have two loves, there is always someone that stands out, ie, u love one more than the other. Perhaps some people love two people equally and some love one more. I guess it all depends on the person. So the answer is YES, you can love two people at the same time.
2006-11-01 18:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It happened once while I was in college. I was in love with a girl in the next town and in love with another girl at the same time. What a mess. It turned out the two were friends (small world) and that quickly ended those relationships.
Probably just as well as I wouldn't have been able to choose.
2006-11-01 23:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by taotemu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush on two people. you can be extremely attracted to two people. You can have great chemistry with two people. You can lust after two people. You can want two people. You can be able to have a fulfilling relationship with either of them. but love is different. true love desires two things: exclusiveness, and and wanting the relationship with them to last forever. Liking two people at the same time is normal. But wanting two people at the same time is selfish. And true love is selfless and self sacrificing. A true lover would not mind dying for the one they love. And would refuse other lovers no matter how physically attractive because they know that they will hurt the one they truly love.
2006-11-01 23:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely....
You can be in love with 2 people for 2 entirely different things. You may love one because he or she is kind, romantic and compassionate and you may love another be he or she is honest, intelligent and sexy. The two people can be separate from each other and each can make you feel differently. If you have a solid belief in what "being in love is" or feels like, then in that case you may not believe you are in love with 2 people. But, love is very dynamic and relative.
2006-11-01 23:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,
But remember the story of the twins,
one birth, two persons.
OK, Good, and bad.
Most of the time with this happens,
One is lust, the other love,
You have to figure it out.
2006-11-01 23:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Faith Walker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course
2006-11-01 23:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by RY. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yes, Willing to die for? maybe.
2006-11-01 23:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but eventually you'll have to make a choice.
2006-11-01 23:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe that polyamory is possible.
2006-11-01 23:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can, but an hour after........you'll choose.......
2006-11-01 23:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by shadowpal2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋