Does it hurt to do it the first time you do it after you have had your kid? did it hurt you? How long did you wait?
2006-11-01 15:15:42 · 10 answers · asked by bogo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im obviously askin because im in the situation.....duh......anyway why is it any of your buisness why I wanna know? to the person who asked the dumb question
2006-11-01 15:22:20 · update #1
You shouldn't not have sex because it hurts.
You shouldn't not have sex because you'll sin.
I've heard from everyone who's had sex that it hurts the first time... and several times after that. But that shouldn't be the reason why you don't have sex.
God has meant for sex to be between a man and a woman who are in love and married.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and are waiting till we're married.
Sex complicates everything in an unmarried relationship. Don't do it. It's as simple as that.
2006-11-01 15:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women hurt the first time and some women don't.
After having a child, play it by ear. You will know when you are ready. IF stitches were required they may be a little tight and have to stretch. BUT you will know IF it is time. Gently is the key word. If you have a raving stallion....and he can't be gentle, make him wait longer until you are sure. Good luck. Pops
2006-11-01 15:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes with the first kid. I finally went to the doctor after 5 months to get some cream. It really helped. No problem after the second kid though.
2006-11-01 15:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people do not enjoy their first time, its sucks.
Very awkard, as this is something very new to the body.
Its best to wait until your are WAY past puberty and /or married.
Yes the first time hurts for many people, and many young girls and women regret their first time, because usually the boy was only after ONE thing.
And this is wear young girls often get tricked because they confuse sex with love.
They think because a boy wants to have sex with her, that she must be special, which is not the case usually.
He just horny.
Wait! Until your older and WISER.
2006-11-01 15:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, it did hurt a little with me, and it was a little uncomfortable.. but everyone is different maybe it wont hurt with you!!i waited about 1 1/2 to 2 months, can't remember exatly!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-01 15:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts a little the first ime ( well for me it did maybe for you it would be different) after a kis well no it doesnt hurt I waited atleast 1 month
2006-11-01 15:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by LuNis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer it from the point of view you are looking for, but my wife was too concerned with having sex again to remember if it hurt at all.
2006-11-01 15:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Darkwraith83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i waited three months lol and yea it hurt but it always does when we wait a long time! got to do it sometime
2006-11-01 15:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Cool Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a little sensitive if you had alot of tearing as i did but be careful and don't do it too soon after words it should be fine
2006-11-01 15:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this
2006-11-01 15:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋