I am 5'2". My bf usually spends 5 minutes or less on foreplay. Sex is new to me and I'm still quite tight. My bf's equipment is of average size. Please, only serious answers. This has been traumatic for me, as he wants to break-up because I can't accomodate him.
2006-11-01 15:11:55 · 11 answers · asked by GadgetGrl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you absolutely need more foreplay. when a girl gets turned on, her cervix retracts, her vagina balloons, and her lips swell. If you're not getting to that point before he tries entering you, it's no surprise he's hitting your cervix.
2006-11-01 15:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Read the The Kama Sutra of Vatsayayana, Part II, Chapter One.
Some people, just don't "fit".
However, if you are experiencing pain during intercourse because he is hitting your cervix, your boyfriend may feel bad about hurting you. He may be concerned about inflicting injury.
If it is not bothering you, let him know, so that it is not an issue for him anymore. Also, you can try the girl on top position. That way, you control how far in he can go.
On the other hand, your boyfriend does not sound very serious about the relationship. Find a nice boy, who cares about you and wants more from you than just sex.
2006-11-01 15:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dreaux~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is an idiot, sorry to say. If sex is what is keeping you together is it even worth it? If he doesnt spend enough time on foreplay, your body probably isn' t prepared yet for sexual activity. YOU should break up with HIM for not accomodating your needs. You are certainly not too small. Since you are sexually active I would suggest that you visit a gynocologist.
He or She will probably tell you that you are completely normal down there, and that should make you feel better.
2006-11-01 15:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by DaniLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not too small he is going to fast. There is no such thing as too small. I am 5' my ex was hung like a horse and we had it good. you just have to be ready. tell him to spend a little time on foreplay. and if he decides to break up with you because you cant satisfy him. way to go you. go get a better guy that can satisfy you!!! no woman should have to deal with that.
2006-11-01 17:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by km 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let him blame his problems on you..if he doesnt put in the effort to make it good for you then blames you for the problem hes a real jerk...your better off finding a nice guy. and your hight has no real factor in "how big you are" if your having trouble wiht hitting the cervix try diffrent postions or also pay attention to the positon of your cervix (they often move through ou the month depending on where you are in your cycle...tends to sit lower just before or during your period and higher after it ends)
2006-11-01 15:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon you probly need more foreplay, especialy if you are new to sex. you need to figure out what YOU need, and if your boyfriend isn't willing to accomidate you then he needs to go. It sound that if he want to break up over this then he isnt worth it anyways.
2006-11-01 15:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by paganrosemama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your B/F sounds very selfish, maybe it would be wise for you to let him go. You deserve better, and the right Man will be more considered of you.
2006-11-01 15:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're b/f has an ego problem. What makes you think he's hitting your cervex? I say get rid of him, he doesn't deserve you!
2006-11-01 18:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Keri B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a jerk. He's blaiming his horrible sex performance on the girl. What a jerk off. dump him.
2006-11-01 16:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Excuses, excuses. Ask him why he really wants to break up with you.
2006-11-01 15:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋