Ok I use to be the regular girl who didn't say much and did what she was told, but I hated being that way, so this year my freshman year I decieded to change and be who I always wanted to be and now im getting more guy friends, and now my family thinks I should go back to the way I use to be but I like who I am now, and I like getting guys attention cuz I always envied the girls who got all the cute athletic guys....what should I do?
2006-11-01 14:55:03 · 7 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just keep on doing what you are doing. That is how I am acting now too. I like getting boys attentions, otherwise they would think of you as a goody-goody.
2006-11-01 14:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get out of highschool, none of that is really going to matter. make sure you have a strong relationship with your parents. I know it's probably not what you want to hear. But if you respect them and try to be a decent kid they will trust you and let you do more things that they might not normally let you do if you were just doing whatever you wanted. And you don't have the guilt of going behind their back or losing their trust. You didn't really explain how you changed. But it's pretty immature to change just to get more attention from guys. You're either going to end up pregnant or start using guys in turn who will use you. have some respect for yourself and realize that guys will always be around but your education won't. The heading is pretty explanatory. All your focus and energy is giving to guys. So you think that's an accomplishment now that you think all the girls will envy you? The cute athletic guys is not always where it's at. They tend to be the real jerks.
2006-11-01 15:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman n i'm shy til u get to understand me. i'm going to take a seat in school quiet n no longer confer with all and sundry n wen ppl confer with me i'm getting traumatic...... yet whilst ik u n have been acquaintances i'm plenty greater outgoing .... I in basic terms get traumatic around greater moderen human beings n i'm getting scared..... men continually calls me attractive n lovable cuz i'm shy, short, have been given a effective physique, im sweetheart til u piss me off, stuff like that......
2016-10-03 04:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be yourself. Just always treat other people with respect and kindness. you can be assertive and be a nice person. your family is probally afraid you are going to be " easy' with the guys. It's easy to be Popular with guys if you are sleeping around, but the guys don't really like you or respect you if you do. be careful!
2006-11-01 15:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self. You like to do what you want to do. Beware doing it is attracting attention from athletes. That is what your family does not want you to hop from fella to fella they do not want to see you get hurt.
2006-11-01 15:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got what you want. What are you complaining about?
2006-11-01 14:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by ben c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! i was exactly like u! just keep doin wat ur doin bc ur parents will always love u no matter wat u do. and its ur life, u decide wat to do with it.
2006-11-02 23:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by NoBody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋