ok my x gf is married and she had a birth just 3 weeks ago,i still love her and i cant imagine my life without her,although we broke up 3yrs ago and she was back to her husband and now she is a mother but i still love her,do u think there should be a chance for me to be with her?and should i contact her?
2006-11-01 14:44:00 · 4 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sorry to hear that but i dont think you should contact her, she has a family now just let her go, if you love her you should be happy to see her happy.
2006-11-01 16:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respectfully suggest that you seek psych counseling. It is not 'normal' behavior to pine for someone that you have not been with for three years. You may have some sort of dependency, separation or adjustment disorder. Having a baby is very difficult (obviously) and any added stressors can lead to post natal depression...if you love her like you say you do.......don't contact her, you might just upset her and yourself unnecessarily.
2006-11-01 14:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by sass_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with sass_blue. she has moved on, and you need to, also. she is married and has a child, she has another life. it would not be wise to contact her. I also think you need to talk to someone to help you deal with why you can't let go of her.
2006-11-01 15:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't love you any more, its over. Move on and find a life with someone who defines love with your name.
2006-11-01 16:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋