Ok so my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 yrs we have one child anyways is it strange that since we have been together hes only bought be one rose and one card i feel like he asks me to do alot for him but when it comes to me he doesnt do anything could he not be intrested in me anymore??? i tell him i am going to leave him but he just shrugs it off
2006-11-01 14:38:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont give him the satisfaction in telling him you're going to leave him. some men get off from knowing that you'll stay no matter what. he sounds selfish and the only way of knowing is leaving and see what he does. if he comes back, he loves you. if not then you know why...
2006-11-01 14:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? If he cannot act his age and stop acting his shoe size, break off your relationship with him (not the child) Do you really need that? You are someone's mother and deserve all of the respect and help that you could ever imagine, dont settle for less because he was a sperm donor. Keep it movin and see how fast he shrugs that off? Oh, yeah, if you have to ask or nudge or hint at something you desire that would show love or appreciation for you, you need to drop that zero and get with a hero, or just learn ways to boost your feelings of self worth. I do mean all of these things in the highest regards.
2006-11-01 22:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could mean lots of different things... his interest may be somewhere else... but at the same time... i know a lot of guys like that.. one in particular my boyfriend... we've also been together for two years and hes the same as ur bf... i do so much for him, he expects a lot out of me, but when it comes to me nothing is done and if he does do something its once in a while... the best advice i could give is if you love him go with the flow, maybe sit down and try to talk to him about it and how it makes you feel... sometimes if something is happening he will straight up tell you once he knows how you are feeling about the situation.. and sometimes they will start doing more things for you ... just gotta talk and see.. hope things get better for you hun
2006-11-01 22:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by loveisntfair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the mistake of making a baby with him. This guy is not good. He cares for but a little. He is able to shrug off your suggestion that you are leaving because he thinks you can never leave. Leave him
2006-11-01 22:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a winner. I can tell you that I can't stop thinking about my ex. And I still send her flowers and cards on her birthday etc. Hmm and we don't even have any children. But the point is I care even if we can't be together. But it sounds like you are going to have to leave him to find out if he still wants to be with you or not.
2006-11-01 22:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by wolann31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toughie, you have a child but things aren't working out. What I would do is tell him that u aren't spending enough time together, and see if the two of you can work things out. Now that you have a kid it is only going to make things harder... Should get married due to kid, imo, up to you though.
2006-11-03 08:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many bf / gf problems can be like that. You just forgot what you had been mam-ling about Love love love forever - got pregnant. You are lucky he didn't left you - is much more common. Good luck you must work together - your single decision has no meaning.
2006-11-01 22:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a big mistake, honey. He's immature, shallow and selfish. Please, don't just threaten to leave. You need to regain some self respect, so take your child and leave. It won't be easy but you deserve so much more than he can offer. Next time, find a good man and go much slower.
2006-11-01 23:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by ragged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are way too generous and you should put your all into something that isnt giving back to you and i know you shouldnt give to receive but in this case a relationship isnt just one side so you need to ask yourself if you want to keep giving and not getting if you know you deseve better then you need to leave and yea i know it is hard but you have to loook out for you sometimes you are more impotant at all times
2006-11-01 22:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to start by saying men are a**holes but there isn't anything abnormal about him they are just inconsiderate and if your problem with him doesn't involve his d**k he probably isn't aware of it, however, I am fighting with my man so my opinion might be off I hope everything works out for you
2006-11-01 22:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by mymail55350 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋