Has anyone ever had a lover that no one else compared to?? I'm 40 & I'm divorced. I've never slept around & I never will. I have had 2 serious relationships since my divorce & although each of these guys were nicer & more of a decent responsible person than my former husband, I was never as satisfied in the bedroom area. Has anyone else had this problem & if so what did you do?
2006-11-01 14:16:37 · 7 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good sex with a bad man can be an addiction, like chocolate or cigarettes. You just want more because they make you feel great. Make sure to look at it just like that.
Write down some of the bad things he did and put it in your purse. Take it out and read it when you start comparing new guys to him. And some guys who are bad lovers, in time and with help, can become great. Sometimes a lousy lover is a direct result of your communication, or lack thereof.
2006-11-01 14:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the reason for that is the later 2 fellas had more respect for you and are more caring and are concerned. I think if you examine the marriage you might find that he cared more for himself than you and his priority was him first, then you. That is why he had no reservations about sex and the new guys do...hence, perhaps a "better" showing in the bedroom. Best thing is to put the past behind, don't compare and forge ahead to better days and relationships.
2006-11-01 22:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by plitsmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Yes I have had that very same problem, I lost my true love many years ago because of my own bad acts and I blame no one else.
And to this very day after being with other beautiful women it has never been the same.
The passion..warmth..skills...it was magically to both of us,
but we both were young not very young but still young enough not to know what we both had with one another.
It's been years since I have seen her and most likely will never see her again in this life time and I find that to be so sad, because we had it when we were in one anthers arms, it was magic and Beautiful we became one with in one another.
even to this very day I wonder dose she ever think back about us and our passion that we had with one another.
My day starts with her coming into my mind, and I always say good-night to her quietly as my eyes begin to close into a deep sleep.
In all truthfulness tell this very day I am still in Love with her, and there has never been another lover or women that has ever come close to bring such joy into my Heart as she had done, and I will forever be in Love with her and always be grateful for the many years that we did have together,
That can never be taken away from one another ever.
I hope that I have help you young Lady.
God Bless You.
Candyman
2006-11-01 22:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by candyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having someone in your life who is a total *** and is awesome in bed at the same time is a real tough spot. I've been there. The best thing you can do is remember the bad times, which makes their bedroom skills not as important. When you think of all the crap he put you through, all the orgasms in the world shouldn't measure up. Good luck!
2006-11-01 22:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by slowfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people will say anything for the two points...... I'm also divorced..married for 16 yrs and i find myself looking for someone to do,feel or move like my ex! maybe you are comparing to your ex......
2006-11-01 23:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by mrcc33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really a taugh one.. well on my own opinion.. coz im only 25.. your problem is that you've never been satisfied in bed either of them.. why dont you talk about it.. or you may suggest him that you wanna do this..to that .. to make you satisfied i mean tell him wat makes you happy..teach him to explore.. or experiment.. u have to be honest to him than pretending.. ..
2006-11-01 22:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by Maia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always BOB.........a battery operated boyfriend! ;>)
2006-11-01 22:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋