does it ever seem that your wife is all into it sometimes while being intimate,,,,and sometimes she could care less just wants to hurry up to get to sleep?
2006-11-01 13:41:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL i feel u
2006-11-01 13:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need some education!! Life is hard for some women with job, chores, kids, activities, ETC....Read some magazine articles on why women don't get in the mood all the time. I know our job is to give sexual affection in fair amounts, but some hormonal, chemical, psychical reasons do exist.
If you need it so badly romance your gf, wife or get a playboy. On the other hand, if you help make it fair and less stressful, like folding some clothes, giving the kids a bath, maybe you can get more bedroom action. Don't think that women do not want it, most of us do....but we're too exhausted or overwhelmed.
2006-11-01 22:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by TRACY A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sometimes my wife may not be in the mood, but just to please she will accommodate my request. That is when she doesn't want for play or romance, all she wants is to get it over with so she can go to sleep and I can go and watch the Sports highlights.
Nothing wrong with that. If she is like that ALL the time, then I would probably be concerned.
IS she loosing her libido? Interest?
So, as long as she is not like that all of the time , I would consider that normal.
2006-11-01 21:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by howdoyou k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember foreplay that thing we couldn't get enough of when we were 12, the bedroom reflects the mood of your whole house romance is still important. it's great shes still willing even if not overly enthusiastic but the interest is nurtured by you. Do some dishes by some flowers, run her a bath- you know the stuff you probably used to think of.
2006-11-01 21:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by much2big4school 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely, but don't put to much in it if she is a working mom. Women don't always feel romantic when they are tried and some sex is better than no sex. Also, how is you performance, you need to ask her, men aren't always the studs we think we are and learning something new in the bedroom is always exciting.
2006-11-01 21:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rodney 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the variety of styles that are present. Comforting, fiery, speedy or slow. It's all OK. If you both are comfortable with each other.
2006-11-01 21:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by luxlove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is normal ! this sometimes happens if life is to hecktick and you just want to get it over with . And othertimes on good days everything just need sto be right and slow
2006-11-01 21:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea it just depends on the forplay, or what time it is, and how busy she was that day. but everytime is allways special, even if she says she just wants to do it for me. after 21 years it still a crap shoot how it will go. its all good, gl.
2006-11-01 21:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by donna r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think either gender can do the same thing, but I think men may do it one heck of a lot more than women.
2006-11-01 21:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the tone on Kanye West's Gold Digger...Hell Yeah!!
Dude some women can go years with out it, they have "deeper feelings"...
2006-11-01 21:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Darksied 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats is normal for evry body. do you always in the mood? i don't think so
2006-11-01 22:17:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋