have you ever felt that you are just dragging a relationship just because you cannot say no.
2006-11-01 13:39:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah It ocuurs many times with me also. Till today also i haven't say no nd for that i am suferring alot. So say no if it is needed otherwise u can suffer alot.
2006-11-02 03:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!!! i`ve really felt like that when a boy proposed me and i dragged that relationship more than 2 months.then my frnd made me realize that im wasting my time and money so i said no to him.u better say no rather than being nice even if u r not desired to do so.good luck and go on!!bye!
2006-11-03 08:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by nix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like all the time. Please get some info from a magazine, book, internet, friends, relation, etc. I was always a yes person so people would like me, look up to me, etc. and they still do even if I say no.U have to learn 1st that U come 1st then others. Good luck!
2006-11-01 22:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when I was younger. I was so afraid of being alone, I would hang on until they finally left - when I wanted to and should have long before. But being alone, and the fear of no one else ever coming along was very frightening to me.
Now - been married 36 years - I guess I lost the fear of being alone.
2006-11-01 21:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I had faced such situation many times. Then I came to learn, "How to say no" . May be that is the finest art of civilisation. First say, they may be right, they may be genuine BUT small logic he/she feels...........then narrate problem........Say u will think over and let him/her know later. That means always 'buy time' is such situation. Never act instantly.
2006-11-01 23:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by ogmansur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are 200 % right.
But I don't want to drag YOU, hence say you 'NO'.
2006-11-01 22:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confusing
give the context
2006-11-01 22:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ? You can say no if you want to say no.It is your sweet will .
2006-11-01 22:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by ravinder b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT ONLY ME BUT WITH EVERYBODY THEY CANNOT JUST SAY NO THEIR WIFE.
2006-11-01 22:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I haven't
2006-11-01 21:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋