Okay, so i have a friend named Tapani Halle, and she is getting to be really annoying. All she's doing now is taking everyone i ever cared about away from me. Because of her I my boyfriend broke up with me! And today during conformation, she told my crush, Jake N. that i wanted to make out with him, when I didn't!!! And also told my friend McCall that I was insulting her behind her back.( which I would NEVER do ) So now McCall hates me. And my crush won't even talk to me anymore! I got a friend Kelsee H. to stand up for me, but she just went off in anger. I need some feedback in what I should do here?!?!?!? SHE TOOK MY FRIENDS AND MY BOYFRIEND AWAY FROM ME! *cries* help
2006-11-01 13:25:07 · 11 answers · asked by marissa111k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Umm how about you tell this girl that you need some space... ( i know its korny but hey) tell her she is being too needy and pull away, when she calls you to do sumthing.. say your busy, and tell everyone she is lying... if she is lying then it should be told. especially if she is telling lies about you... she is talking behind your back, and spreading rumours... get mad and say STOP telling people rumors ! like what is wrong with you, i still wanna be your friend but you are making this really hard... and apologize to your other friends ..McCall, and that guy you like and your boyfriend - try to stay friends.. even tho you didnt do anything wrong apologize to McCall (girl right?) first because then she can back you up, be like im really sorry about what you heard, (dont do this on MSN!! OR AOL!!) but Tapani is driving me crazy (which she is) and i didnt say those things... are we cool ? or whatever you wanna say there -- Personelle experience
2006-11-01 13:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dahlin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, those people are really not your friends. If they were they would have ask you for the truth and what is really going on?
Those are not meant to be with you they are with you to teach you a lesson baby. Those friends are called seasonal friends. That mean that you have better ones that will come and stick by you through thick and thin. The boyfriend I wouldn't even worry about God made more adam's in this world. Don't sweat it, keep your head up and stay strong. Trouble don't last always. There are some lifetime friends out there somewhere waiting on you to come and talk to them. You never know it might be the ones u least expect. good luck
2006-11-01 21:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by rochelle29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off let it be known that the truth will ALWAYS come out sooner or later.. have faith in that and as long as your being a good person you need to rise above all this drama and keep on doing your own thing.. you don't want to add any extra energy that's already negative towards you. if you ignore it, it will difuse because they'll realize that their efforts of hurting you will be thwarted and useless only making them look like the fools. this is also a good way to find out not only who you are but who your TRUE friends are, and if they all suck then maybe you need to find some new friends that aren't so quick to diss ya when things get cheesy... stay strong within yourself and good luck!! :)
2006-11-01 22:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by the alpha princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell us - total strangers - their names, and call yourself a friend? Not a good thing to do. Feedback - people don't like your behavior. People who know you don't care to be treated that way. Cry away, but you are causing them grief. Quit stating your case and apologise on your own behalf, and move on. You'll meet people who will take your side - it's up to you to figure out if that's only out of sympathy, or real respect.
Capital letters in emails show disrespect, by the way. You'll know that soon. It might take awhile, but you won't still feel this way in ten years time.
2006-11-01 21:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by WomanWhoReads 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would telll that Tapani to stop doing all that sh!t that she's doing.. and then go and tlak to all the people that she took away from you and explain what happened...
2006-11-01 21:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who are your real friends can not be taken away by anyone for any reason. try hangin out with some other people for a while, you just may like them much better.
2006-11-01 21:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are that easy to take away, THEY WEREN'T YOUR FRIENDS. Forget them all and start finding some lifelong friends.
And I promise you, none of these girls or these issues will matter to you in 3 yrs.Promise.
2006-11-01 21:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by rynay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sry, just tell ur friend 2 chill, and stop being a lying little *****, and try 2 explain 2 every 1 the truth.
<3
2006-11-01 21:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by goldfshhh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you are not using people real names on here.
2006-11-01 22:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if these people were actually ur friends, they would have never believed in this "he said she said" stuff they would have known better than to believe what one person says
2006-11-01 21:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by lyn934 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋