I am 25 years old and my dad keeps telling me to find a husband and i am getting old because i work 13 hours live an apartment in nyc he thinks i need a man the last boyfriend i ever had was in kindergarden and i didnt even like him i just wanted his crayons(he had the 64 pack) what is the best way to find a boy friend for me and to make my family proud of me and plus i am going to vegas next week with my 3 best friends and thier husbands i get my own suite what should i do
2006-11-01 13:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if you have anyone in mind this might be the time to ask him to go with you. You never know what can happen. As far as finding a husband. Your still young have fun with your life and just don't get one to make others happy. Make sure your going to be happy with your choice. Your the one that has to live with him.
2006-11-01 13:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting a husband because others are telling you to find a husband is not a reason to get married. If you don't want to get married then, don't get married. If you feel uncomfortable going to Las Vegas with your married friends, maybe you should consider traveling with single friends. Be very careful when looking for a husband because you don't want just anybody. The way you meet someone and where you meet them tells you a lot about the person. Make sure he's a single man and not involved with someone else. If he's married or dating someone else and wants to date you that is trouble. Be yourself. Having a husband doesn't mean your family will be proud of you, there has been plenty of families shamed by the man their daughter married.
2006-11-01 22:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a husband is not as easy as picking pebbles or shells from the beach. It is neither as easy as buying fruits from the supermarket.
In our country, the Philippines, where marriages are meant to last a lifetime, finding a husband goes through a long process of companionship without sex, until the parties get to know each other so widely, deeply, and intensely that they are ready to embrace the 100-100 proposition of marriage. Under such proposition, the man gives 100% to the woman, and the woman does the same so that in the end they both end up with 100% each.
I would suggest that you figure out what you really want out of a marriage and then widen your circle of influence so that you will be able to examine the options and alternatives available to you.
Do not forget that marriage involves surrendering a part of yourself and your time and also alloting more time in case you want to have children.
2006-11-01 21:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by seabug_46 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol your funny =P....but you should probly get (no offence) a better social life hang in some clubs ...dont do drugz and umm well be yourself better to be hated for who you are then loved for who you arn't(famous quote) good luck lady
2006-11-01 21:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by hmongheroz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you do not like to marry then fogret it.
2006-11-01 21:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by bangla answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋