I do not feel like I can trust her, any advice?
2006-11-01 13:14:22 · 9 answers · asked by kristy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Confront her about it. Maybe she was trying to spare someones feelings. You won't know the reason unless you ask her.
2006-11-01 13:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She may of had reasons not to tell the truth at that time...to save either one of you from embarrassment. Or maybe she was just being an airhead, not really listening, and answered incorrectly. Give her a second chance if you have known her that long. Why lose a friend over a possible miscommunication? If it bothers you that much and you are good friends, then maybe you should confront her and get it over with. Once it's out in the open then maybe you can get past it. I hope its an honest mistake...good friends are hard to find.
2006-11-01 13:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have a talk her in private with no one else around, and ask her why she lied. Maybe there is a misunderstanding, and not an intentional lie.
Maybe she thinks that you said something that was not true.
I would definitely discuss it with her and put your feelings out on the table, and you two may still be friends forever.
Good Luck
2006-11-01 13:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess it ain't a small lie if you don't trust her anymore.. if you want to trust her again you will know what to do.its human nature i don't have to explain anything
2006-11-01 13:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Fritz J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what she did to you if you think that it is for the best then drop her like she should be. i have the same thing kinda happen with my sister and she didn't like what i was doning and she thaught , she could have my family that i have. she is no longer in my home just for tht reason. good luck!!
2006-11-01 13:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by snowsinoctober1980 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how can we answer you if you say (this is a small lie)it is a lie or is it a thing you can forgive,we cant answer if we dont know what we are going to answer to.x
2006-11-01 13:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by I'll help you---You help me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sit down and talk to her about it. Remember she is only human. Things like this remind me that when it comes down to it we can only trust our selfs
2006-11-01 13:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what she had lied about
2006-11-01 13:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
and you never lied to her
2006-11-01 13:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋