i have a friend who tries to save money and so shes always scabbing food, car rides, money etc. when she buys pressies they are from the bargin bin but from the heart if you know what i mean. how do i say no to her cos she is a good friend, just a bloody tight ****. i dont mind giving but its getting too too much now
2006-11-01 13:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Fact; You teach people how to treat you. Be tactful and polite but assert yourself. Be honest, not hurtful. A friend will understand.
Accept her for who she is and she'll have to accept you for who you are. Life always supplies ample takers to givers. Take care of yourself first. Besides you can't give what you don't have. You deserve whats yours and have the right and responsibility to take care of YOU.
2006-11-01 13:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by big dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that her family have problem in finance? As a friend, you might need to put this into consideration. Should help her and accept if she do have problem as mentioned above.
If she do not have finance problems, then most probably is trian to be or educate to be, if you dun not able accept as it was, talk to her, and let her know your feeling.
2006-11-01 21:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Vangelis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend that takes stuff and never gives it back
this friend is a bit of sook i lala
she asks "oh can i borrow your smiggle pencils"
"oh can i borrow that" "oh can i borrow this"
and than she never gives it back
I saw 1 of my smiggle textas in her pencil case and i said
"isnt that mine" and shes like
"no" but it is really mine bacause i was missing my red texta
and she dosent even have any smiggle stationary she says
" i got it from my friend"
ian never gonna give anything to that friend anjymore! :(
2006-11-01 21:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by P H A T ? [ ♥ ] ○●○●○● 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are true friends you should be able to tell her to her face. saving money is fine, but when your savings if affecting others then your just being annoying.
2006-11-01 21:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by msaechao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a person like yourself to be with.if she does that to everyone? what else will she do when the going gets tough. keep your distance..trust me ..been there done that!
2006-11-01 21:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by saxaphonist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If do not take otherwise i would like to say she might useing you.
2006-11-01 21:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by bangla answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a frend.give one last time....the boot!
2006-11-01 21:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO and thats not a friend
2006-11-01 21:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jose! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋