ok, im 16, and ive had this friend that ive known since like 5th grade, and me and him have masturbated since we were in like 8th grade. we've talked about it for years, but about a week ago, we actually masturbated in front of each other and compared penis sizes and talked about it in person instead of like on aim or something...i thought it was pretty fun, and i want to do it again, although maybe next time i want to like jack him off and have him jack me off, just to experiment..we are both very attracted to women, so we arent gay, but i want to kno if its still gay to want this, and how i can get him to have me jack him off and have him jack me off..
2006-11-01 13:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by yo yo 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you're curious...enjoy.
2006-11-01 14:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This occurs a lot. Why on southpark the same thing happened. I don't really think this is gay bcuz if u were gay you would be attracted to your friend. Exploring and doing things like that is normal and not gay. And if you want to do this again just ask him.
But don't make a big thing act like it's nothing and be casual.
Don't ask him in front of other people and don't try to tear him away from a group to ask him.
2006-11-02 06:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Parvati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a teenager is all about getting to know yourself. It`s OK to experiment with different things and just because you try something does not mean that suddenly you have a label attached to you. It doesn`t mean that you are this or you are that, you are you and you are getting to know your body, your feelings and your wants, your likes and dislikes. It`s OK to be interested in something and then later on not be too. Just be safe when you do experiment, use condoms if exchange of bodily fluids is going to happen. It may be playing it safe to have some on hand just in case things go further than planed.
2006-11-01 21:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by bubbabuddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
straight boys have sex with each other and their gay friends all the time -- none of them ever suddenly turned gay and stopped wanting women as far as I know.
Just ask. If you liked it, he probably did too -- ask if you can touch his and let him touch yours if you want to , I rather suspect that he might want to, but you will only know if you ask.
When I was your age I was out, and a fair number of straight friends would get horny and just ask me to suck them off -- masturbation and sex are healthy (be safe if with anyone who might be infected with anything though). Enjoy being yourself, enjoy your friend - and stop worrying about what it will do to you, cause it won't do anything. My straight friends are still straight (a pity in my opinion in a couple of the cases -- they were cute) and they remember what we did very fondly.
Peace,
Reyn
2006-11-02 00:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like you are curious, and maybe you should just see what happens if you guys do the same thing again
2006-11-01 21:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy+Mark=Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly normal at that age, being horny with out an abundance of girls it is healthy normal behavior doesn't really mean anything. you will know in time
2006-11-02 09:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are just curious.
2006-11-01 23:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Merrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe bisexual, but probably just the hormones raging. You're just horny
2006-11-01 21:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by JR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your just curious and you should experiment!
2006-11-01 21:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt call you gay or bi just curious no harm in that
2006-11-01 21:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by awesome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋