Ladies..wat if u get unexpectly pregnant.. wat would u do?

Question

what if u found out u was pregnant? would u keep the child? or get a abortion? wat would u do?

Answer 1

OK FIRST IS I WOULD KEEP THE BABY. THIS JUST AN ADVISE YOU SHOULD USE PROTECTION IF YOU DIDN'T WANT TO HAVE A BABY. THE BABY'S ARE A BLESSING. I WOULD RECOMMEND FOR YOU TO KEEP THE BABY. YOU SHOULD PUT IT FOR ADOPTION.

Answer 2

Each situation is different. You have to decide which option is best for you. Can you raise a child for the next 18 years or can't you? Can you emotionally handle an abortion? Adoption is a choice as well, but you have to be willing to give the child away. Is there someone you can talk to? Otherwise a counselor would be helpful. Don't rely on an abortion clinic to provide one. And under no circumstances should you get an abortion because someone else wants you to. Hope that helps.

Answer 3

4 yrs ago I found out I was pregnant. I had only been dating, my now husband, for only 3.5 months.....We hardly knew each other and we definitely were not trying to have a child, but we did what we had to do....grow up and take responsibility for our actions. Now, we have been together for 5 years, have a beautiful 4 year old boy and just recently had our 2nd child 2 months ago!

A child is a blessing. A gift from God. If you think that you cannot handle the ENORMOUS challenges that a child can bring, please don't murder the baby for a mistake you made. Simply give that child a chance to live with a family that cannot conceive.....It would be the best gift you could ever give someone!

Answer 4

They are so many factors to mix into this question, age, health, and more important than anything, FINANCES. It cost me $1900.00 just to bring my son home, a crib, bedding, stroller, car sits, toys, clothes, diapers, wipes, medicines, bottles, bottle warmer, breast pump, the list is massive for just the basics. However I was very prepared, I had money saved, over $10k, I was planning to buy a car or if I got pregnant, got pregnant first. The point is babies are expensive. Especially if its your the first one. With my second pregnancy I was unprepared and super scared to death. I chose not to have the baby when I was 4 weeks along, and yes it kills me everyday of what Ive done. Choosing is personal and its a decision that will be with you all your life. And yes you don't know what to expect until it actually happens to you. Think whats best for the baby in the long end of things...can you give this child every single thing it needs without a blink of an eye or wondering about it?, Do you have what it takes to be 100% there for him or her when they come crying in pain looking for help? Choosing to be a parent is the toughest job on the planet with no paycheck. Think about it!

Answer 5

well i found out i was pregnant at 7 weeks cause i started feeling sick every day. my partner and i were planning on getting married at the end of next year so we chose to keep it. i suggest to talk to the father and decide between yourselves if you are going to both contribute to the babies life and what would be best for the child. if it turns out neither of you really want the baby than an abortion or adoption are probably the answers as the baby might not get the best life otherwise.
hope this helps.

Answer 6

I became unexpectedly pregnant when I was 18 while usind 2 types of birth control with my husband and I kept my baby!!! If I got pregnant again I would keep it, even though it would be hard work becuause my baby girl is only 7 months old. But I am financally stable with a house and car, insurance, a savings account with money in it, and a loving husband.

Answer 7

This is an enormously personal question that you alone can answer in keeping with your deepest values and the most trusted counsel you can receive. Either way or any way, you will need support. Make sure you have the help you deserve. And then once you have listened to all the advice, choose what you know in your heart is the best and right thing to do.

Answer 8

I have been there and I chose not to have the child. I was at a point in my life that I could not take care of a child and giving it up for adoption was not an option for me. The kind of job that I was in would not be able to support a healthy pregnany and the baby would not have a chance of being healthy.

Answer 9

I don't believe this question can be answered honestly and 100% accurately until a woman actually DOES find herself in the situation. It's very easy to say what you would or wouldn't do, but it's entirely another thing to have it really happen. I've seen many, many women change their tune when they've found themselves really pregnant.

Answer 10

I have had 3 babies and one on the way, and each one was sooo exciting. Two were unexpected but great surprises. I would never have an abortion or give up my child. They are just too precious to me. I had my first at age 20.

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