Hey now tha that i got your attention I was wondering what are some ways to build your self confindence, be outgoing, and not always worry about what your hair looks like(& ect.) and what other ppl think of you?!? Im outgoing with my friends every once and a while but I want to be like that all the time.
2006-11-01 12:20:14 · 15 answers · asked by xoxoDewtYxoxo 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Okay its not like im a nerd, i have TONS of friends but I mean im the "shy" friend
2006-11-01 12:41:49 · update #1
Confidence comes from within. You have to be comfortable in your own skin and know who you are. What are your strengths? Go to the book store and buy the book "All About Me". Fill out the entire book and then read it over. You will have a better idea of who you are and how you feel about things. You are always going to be prettier than some and not as pretty as others. Some will have better hair than you and some wont. But who cares really. Just be yourself and people will admire your strength and want to be with you because you are confident in being you.
2006-11-01 12:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by 1truthseeker 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Always be outgoing. Here are some things that I studied that helped people's self-confidence rise. They're "quotes":
-When you meet a new person, act like they're a friend you've know forever.
-Angels danced the day you were born.
Trust me, you shouldn't worry about what you look like, because over half of the time, you see yourself differently than anyone else does.
2006-11-01 20:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by chandee_international_beauty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, that wuz hilarious!!! i can't blieve you did that to get attention!! ha ha ha ha!!! hee hee!!! funny!! just act like everything you do is blameless and faultless, act like they r the ones being weird bcuz they're finding problems with everything you do (if they do, which is unlikely) and just eat a lot of candy the day b4, or get a coffe that moring b4 skool. and obviously if you've friends you must b sorta outgoing!!! just get hiper, then it'll *** natural and if you don't have coffee but be outgoing the next day, they'll think it's the same....maybe that's not the best suggestion...sry!!!!
2006-11-01 20:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Will never build your self confidence trying to be someone you are not. Just be yurself. Don't be afraid to laugh especially @ yurslf. Laughter is outgoing it cures alot of imperfections!
2006-11-01 20:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i used to be really shy and always the tag along. then i just changed who i am. now im outgoing all the time and everyone knows me as outgoing. i just forced myself to say whatever came into my head. and if sum2 insulted me, insult them back. compliments get compliments back. just say forget you if sum1 starts messing with u. pretend like u own the world and act like it.
2006-11-01 20:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok just be yourself...i know cheezy line...but honestly it's true...and if you are different than the rest of your friends...you know what your different. at my school our little friendship motto is different is good...and if the people dump you they dump you...nothing you can do. to be more outgoing just be happy all the time...but not during certain times...like omg i just failed my math quiz i better keep smiling...no...just smile at things that make since to smile at! you should get it eventually!
2006-11-01 20:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Cori S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can change who you are. think positive thoughts, do kind things for others, try to say something positive to someone everyday, look for the good in things, including yourself.
confidence, confidence, confidence.
when you stop worrying about what others think, and you are comfortable with who you see in the mirror everyday, your confidence will shine through!!
2006-11-01 20:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by NeverReady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do't know. I guess it comes from selfworth. You need to feel like you do something for society...i really mean it.
get a job, help someone, organize something.
start feeling like you're more than just looks....and you'll become more than just looks
2006-11-01 20:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by idontknowsquat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People will always have something to say, just be yourself, forget what everybody els has to say. You'll find out that people will still like you for you.
2006-11-01 20:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way is to just accept the fact you are who you are, and live with it, if others don't like it well to bad.
2006-11-01 20:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋