i just found out that my x gf had a birth three weeks ago and i dont know if i should be happy for that or sad,i still love her,i cant let her out of my mind although we've been seperated for 3yrs now...i dont know how to contact her,her email address was closed,her phone number has changed and i dont remember her home address,is there any chance in the world i can get her phone number?
p.s she is in uk
plzz i need help
2006-11-01 11:52:16 · 13 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know how u feel though. My crush who's unfortunately straight and married just got pregnant and I found out 3 wks ago (too). It was a huge blow to me eventho' she doesn't know how I feel. Of course, having a baby is always a good thing but it was a real awakening for me that she'll never be mine and that she and her husband will be bonded for life forever because of the child.
So in your case, since she was your ex-g/f, you can feel whatever u want, happy or sad. I don't know how u can contact her but how did u know that she gave birth? Is it through mutual friends? Then ask them if they can give u her email, phone #, etc. However, like my crush, she will definitely be bonded with the father of her child forever, so in case u do contact her again, u have to be ready for having him around her and the baby. I'm just assuming this tho', it may be a different story.
You may not want to hear this, but it seems she has moved on with her life. Having a kid is a big responsibility and especially now with a new baby around, she won't have time for anything else. So I suggest u move on with your life too. I know it's easier said than done, but that's what I've been doing as well. Taking one day at a time in trying to get rid of these feelings for my crush. So give it time, keep yourself busy to keep your mind off of her. It's still up to you if u want to pursue her or not so good luck!
2006-11-02 05:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 04:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her, but leave her alone. She's just been through a trauma, and has a whole new world of responsibilities to sort through. Adding drama to that would be most inconsiderate. Channel your love into well-wishing, and congratulate her if you ever run into her again.
2006-11-01 11:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Beardog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats terriable maybe she will get back with you shes probly playing games with the guy that was stupid enougth to get her pregnant.now she will start talking of brake up and slam him for childsupport. men are so stupid to think relationships are conceret with woman these days. give it a year.for her to put the screws to him. he;ll be so bewildered he;ll be cring like baby and then the baby child will have two mothers to love it with a check coming once a month on his the fathers behalf.then you and her can live it up agian!
2006-11-01 12:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea dont contact her now. find out her info now and contact her down the road. and it seems shes moved on
2006-11-01 11:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by justine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not ask someone you no that nos her too??? and send her a congrat letter with ur address on it to see what she will do ''reply or call you ,cause leave ur number on the letter!!
2006-11-01 11:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if ur over her, then u should be happy for her. and if ur not, and u still rly rly love her, then u shoudl fly to uk! also, y is ur icon a girl, and u have agirlfriend, r u gay? just out of curiosity
2006-11-01 11:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by greendots1993 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about leaving her alone, sounds like she has moved on with her life
2006-11-01 11:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know what city she is in then go to www.whitepages.com and type in her name and city then it will give you her recent phone #.
2006-11-01 11:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mrbigjohnson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has probably forgotten about u and has moved on. want to go out with me? email me at dragonboy02nh@yahoo.com
2006-11-01 11:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by dragonboy02nh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋