2006-11-01 11:48:19 · 52 answers · asked by coolness 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No...never was..never will be.
And for those of you that think the bible says it is....Where Exactly does it say that?! I have read the bible front to back several times and there is NOTHING in it that outright says that. There are only a few interpretations that allude to it.
In fact...let's see. Adam & Eve were NOT married.... Joseph had 8 wives... (along with every other male of his time)
Do you really want to fallow that corse of arguement here???
Yeah..I didnt think so.
2006-11-01 11:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 7⤊ 4⤋
Usually wrong for a number of reasons...like you need to get to know someone well before getting physical. How do you feel afterwards when you get the promise "I'll call you" but the call never comes? Women need to "save" that part of themselves because men generally want it so much they will lie to you to get it! A woman needs a man to commit to her financially and in other ways for the long term if she is going to have children so she can spend time at home rearing them. If you give it away, it is a lot less likely that your partner will see value in a long term commitment or a relationship... unless you have a lot of money!
2006-11-01 12:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by krisjb1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your belief. Some religions say yes, others do not. Frankly I think sex for the sake of sex is not a good thing but done as an expression of your emotions for a person you love I see nothing wrong with it.
2006-11-01 11:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is wrong, however, everyone will say it is okay because they like to put there own pleasure before morality. I mean who wants to admit what they are choosing is wrong. It take a very strong person to resist the temptation of sexual gratification before marriage. But if you are one of the few, your future husband/wife will appreciate and cherish you more that someone who has been with every Tom, Dick and Harry.
2006-11-01 14:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Peace 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian and I try and live by the bible. It can be very hard sometimes. According to the bible sex is wrong before marriage. If you are of a different religion I would look into what my religion says. If you aren't anything right now then the choice is up to you. So I guess you have to see where you stand in your beliefs and with who you are.
2006-11-01 11:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Glee 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Would you rather find out you're not compatible sexually after marriage, and get divorced? Since when does a religion have the power to determine when you are to have sex? Remember that some religious laws are man made.
2006-11-01 11:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Bible says it is wrong. Not to mention, you will feel bad about yourself if you do. Think about when you get married. If you have slept with others than your spouse, you will be carrying the memories of all of the other people you have been with into bed with you. Those memories don't fade. In my opinion, a 25-year old who has been with her boyfriend for four years and is still a virgin, I say wait. It is the moral, right thing to do.
2006-11-01 11:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Faith C 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes and No. You should know how making love is before you marry someone. Also waiting for the right special someone is beautiful.
2006-11-01 11:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Maji 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it would depend on your religion or your own beliefs on the matter. Some religions and people believe that sexual intercourse is something that should only be shared when two people are married. I personally think it should be an individual choice. If something is right for you, you'll know.
2006-11-01 11:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It is very very wroing. Don't listen to these people who are constantly comparing a womans vaginity to a car. Make the right choice like I did and do not open your legs to no man who doesn't have the guts to marry you. Everything will turn out better in the end. Trust me, infact read my profile.
2006-11-01 11:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋